Hey - I missed this by 8 hours and can still lay claim to the first eyeroll.
I am by far not a religious person but there was one parable that applies to this.
The young man was at the end of his rope.
Seeing no way out, he dropped to his knees in prayer.
"Lord, I can't go on," he said. "I have too heavy a cross to bear."
The Lord replied, "My son, if you can't bear it's weight, just place your cross inside this room. Then open another door and pick any cross you wish."
The man was filled with relief. "Thank you, Lord," he sighed, and did as he was told.
As he looked around the room he saw many different crosses; some so large the tops were not visible. Then he spotted a tiny cross leaning against a far wall.
"I'd like that one, Lord," he whispered.
And the Lord replied, "My son, that's the cross you brought in."
Has nothing to do with religion actually. Basically no matter what you think you are missing there are those that have it worse. be thankful for what you have.
My version.... get over it. Move on.