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Let it all out...

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Let it all out...

ummm, it seems like every thread is a sad mood thread, but maybe this will be a public service. ;)

I miss my daughter. I hate long weekends.

i am sorry about all the crap with your family and brother cassius.:(

ummm, it seems like every thread is a sad mood thread, but maybe this will be a public service. ;)

There is no snarkiness allowed in the sad mood thread!

I miss my daughter. I hate long weekends.

I'm sorry. When do you get to see her again?

There is no snarkiness allowed in the sad mood thread!



I'm sorry. When do you get to see her again?

Tuesday. What I hate the most is now that I'm working I have to drop her off sometimes at 6 AM while she's sleeping, so I don't get to say goodbye.

i am sorry about all the crap with your family and brother cassius.:(

Thanks terence. :) It will get better. It has to.

I'll tell my mom about it tomorrow, she'll probably send him to a psychologist.

There is no snarkiness allowed in the sad mood thread!

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Now you are allowed. :D

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What's a snark?

This is what happened

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bad/mad/sad mood...thanks Chicago Flubs!! :rolleyes:

Cassius, *BIG HUGS* to you...hang in there. You're a wonderful girl, daughter and sister :sweet: Things will get sorted out, even if it's you doing all the work. ;)

This is what happened

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I love this describtion.

I'm so tired of waking up own my own on a sunday morning (well.. afternoon) and feel the loneliness kicking in. Luckily my family seems to be elsewhere so I don't need to hear about my unhealthy drinking habits..

EDT: Oh, shit, now their back home. Brace for impact! :rolleyes:

I'm so tired of waking up own my own on a sunday morning (well.. afternoon) and feel the loneliness kicking in. Luckily my family seems to be elsewhere so I don't need to hear about my unhealthy drinking habits..

EDT: Oh, shit, now their back home. Brace for impact! :rolleyes:

So how was the party last night?

So how was the party last night?

Horrible. Me and my friend stayed there for maybe a couple of minutes, just enough to take a look around and then we made a run for the door. So all in all a very dissapointing evening.

Feeling very angst today.. :D

Horrible. Me and my friend stayed there for maybe a couple of minutes, just enough to take a look around and then we made a run for the door. So all in all a very dissapointing evening.

Feeling very angst today.. :D

Oh dear. I know what you mean, but it's somewhat liberating that you know you don't have to stay and be nice if you don't want to.;)

Oh dear. I know what you mean, but it's somewhat liberating that you know you don't have to stay and be nice if you don't want to.;)

Yes, I know what you mean. Those kind of things are highly overrated. :)

How has your weekend been so far?

This is me... :tears: because I have a terrible cold where I feel like I could sneeze, but I don't and my eyes just water instead. I have a cough and a red nose too. Don't hate me cuz I'm bootyful. :p

ah ah ah .... *no sneeze* :tears:

This is me... :tears: because I have a terrible cold where I feel like I could sneeze, but I don't and my eyes just water instead. I have a cough and a red nose too. Don't hate me cuz I'm bootyful. :p

ah ah ah .... *no sneeze* :tears:

Too bad. :( Hope you will be feeling better soon.

maybe you need!

no... I think your new avatar just healed me!! :horny: :guitar:

Last night I was out with a friend and his wife.
When we were driving home I had Elbow and Sigur Rós playing, amongst others.
The wife then asked me if I didn't have any more uplifting, cheerful music because this was so depressing.
Then I put on Babies by Pulp and about 2 minutes into the song she said that if one finds thís kind of music "happy" or "cheerful" one would definitely need medication! :eek:
"Babies" isn't depressing, is it?? :mad:

Yes, I know what you mean. Those kind of things are highly overrated. :)

How has your weekend been so far?

Not sad. ;) "I'm too cheerful for this thread, too cheerful for this thread...":guitar:

This is me... :tears: because I have a terrible cold where I feel like I could sneeze, but I don't and my eyes just water instead. I have a cough and a red nose too. Don't hate me cuz I'm bootyful. :p

ah ah ah .... *no sneeze* :tears:


Oh hun, I know what you feel, it happens to me too every now and then. Get well soon! :)

:tears: I ran over a squirrel this morning. Well, I heard a thump and didn't see anything in my rear view mirror after that. Perhaps we just stumbled away, stunned. :o:rolleyes:

I will be able to file for divorce in seven days.

I will be able to file for divorce in seven days.

that is sad but also good too, no?
no more having to deal with asswigs? that is always good. if i am not helping, just ignore me.:o

I will be able to file for divorce in seven days.

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that is sad but also good too, no?
no more having to deal with asswigs? that is always good. if i am not helping, just ignore me.:o

It is sad because I feel like I've failed. I'm going to file, no doubt about that, but I'm having mixed emotions about it. It's almost like going through the heartache all over again. It's been a tough couple of weeks. I'm hoping that it gets easier after it's all said and done.

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Thanks. :o

It is sad because I feel like I've failed. I'm going to file, no doubt about that, but I'm having mixed emotions about it. It's almost like going through the heartache all over again. It's been a tough couple of weeks. I'm hoping that it gets easier after it's all said and done.



Thanks. :o

i am sure you will, you are a tough cookie and i would guess when all is said and done, to be finished will be a relief.

and you did not fail.

i am sure you will, you are a tough cookie and i would guess when all is said and done, to be finished will be a relief.

and you did not fail.

I hope so. I'm tired of being tough. It sucks.

Even though this was brought on by his actions, I still feel like I've failed somehow.

I hope so. I'm tired of being tough. It sucks.

Even though this was brought on by his actions, I still feel like I've failed somehow.

i think that is only natural, i used to think it was my fault my ex was a douche to me, then i just realized, nope, she is just a douche.:)

i think that is only natural, i used to think it was my fault my ex was a douche to me, then i just realized, nope, she is just a douche.:)

I feel like maybe I missed something or should have done something differently. What if the warning signs were there and I just didn't see them? Could I have prevented this?

I feel like maybe I missed something or should have done something differently. What if the warning signs were there and I just didn't see them? Could I have prevented this?

i really doubt it sweetie pie.from what you have told me anyways,i dont see how you should blame yourself in any way.but again ,i know how it goes, we always blame ourselves.i am sorry you are sad.:(

i really doubt it sweetie pie.from what you have told me anyways,i dont see how you should blame yourself in any way.but again ,i know how it goes, we always blame ourselves.i am sorry you are sad.:(

Thanks. :)

I guess I feel like this could have been prevented if I had paid more attention. I don't remember him acting any differently at the time but in retrospect, I think he may have been. If I had paid more attention, maybe I could have prevented this situation from reaching the conclusion it did.

But then again, there were a lot of lies exposed during that time that had nothing to do with the situation at hand, which would have undermined the trust anyway, so maybe it's best that things happened the way they did.

Hindsight is always 20/20, I suppose.

the only men who could ever be attracted to me would have to be pedophiles.

I have great reason to be sad about a situation that has gone on for months, I thought it had gotten better and things would be ok, but somehow life just won't let me be happy. :(

I'm in a strong state of mind these days tho, so I won't let it get me down, and will go about things with maturity and caution. Won't make the mistakes I made in the past.
DannyBoy lives! :guitar:

Thanks. :)

I guess I feel like this could have been prevented if I had paid more attention. I don't remember him acting any differently at the time but in retrospect, I think he may have been. If I had paid more attention, maybe I could have prevented this situation from reaching the conclusion it did.

But then again, there were a lot of lies exposed during that time that had nothing to do with the situation at hand, which would have undermined the trust anyway, so maybe it's best that things happened the way they did.

Hindsight is always 20/20, I suppose.

I have great reason to be sad about a situation that has gone on for months, I thought it had gotten better and things would be ok, but somehow life just won't let me be happy. :(

I'm in a strong state of mind these days tho, so I won't let it get me down, and will go about things with maturity and caution. Won't make the mistakes I made in the past.
DannyBoy lives! :guitar:

I'll do a cartwheel for you guys! :)

Thanks. :)

I guess I feel like this could have been prevented if I had paid more attention. I don't remember him acting any differently at the time but in retrospect, I think he may have been. If I had paid more attention, maybe I could have prevented this situation from reaching the conclusion it did.

But then again, there were a lot of lies exposed during that time that had nothing to do with the situation at hand, which would have undermined the trust anyway, so maybe it's best that things happened the way they did.

Hindsight is always 20/20, I suppose.

My cousin is able to file for divorce in January. Her husband turned out to be a shit. A complete turd. And no matter what she says, she did not fail. The fact is he had no intention of helping it succeed. She is a giver and therefore feels she could have given endlessly to the relationship to make it work. She feels that she could always give more...even after giving 100%. She 'should have done this', she 'could have done that'.
She shouldn't, and she couldn't. She was spent.
She left. She did the right thing. It's over and that, in all it's horrible cliche, is that.
My love and thoughts to you Bysshe.

I have felt throughly miserable for about two days, this resulting in me dashing vodka in to everything at odd times of the day. It's like Eastenders, ever noticed that whenever anyone is down in Eastenders out comes the giant bottle of vodka?

I have felt throughly miserable for about two days, this resulting in me dashing vodka in to everything at odd times of the day. It's like Eastenders, ever noticed that whenever anyone is down in Eastenders out comes the giant bottle of vodka?


Hmmm, stop drinking when you're feeling down.
If you keep doing so you'll be an alcoholic.

I have felt throughly miserable for about two days, this resulting in me dashing vodka in to everything at odd times of the day. It's like Eastenders, ever noticed that whenever anyone is down in Eastenders out comes the giant bottle of vodka?

I know what you mean, I'm stuck in a very similar situation with the booze issue. Life just seems to be so pointless. Of course it isn't when you come to think of it but I really can't help the way I feel.

Quite sad really. :(

I know what you mean, I'm stuck in a very similar situation with the booze issue. Life just seems to be so pointless. Of course it isn't when you come to think of it but I really can't help the way I feel.

Quite sad really. :(

You are not forced to go solo, you know. You can do whatever you want.

I know what you mean, I'm stuck in a very similar situation with the booze issue. Life just seems to be so pointless. Of course it isn't when you come to think of it but I really can't help the way I feel.

Quite sad really. :(

Well, recently I haven't been able to think of a good reason why it isn't pointless! Nothing has happened, I just slowly seem to have fallen into this gloomy thought pattern. And don't get the wrong idea, I haven't been drinking all day for a week or anything like that.

You are not forced to go solo, you know. You can do whatever you want.

Yes, Im aware of that. In a sense I am aware of that, but I can't really prevent myself for falling to the old patterns that are bound to cause misery. I really envy people who know what they want and are prepared to go for it. It never seems to be this easy tough.

Not sad exactly, I'm a bit...torn.

I don't like my job much at all, but I learnt today that it has gone into admin and will probs be closed before Xmas, so now I have to find another job at very short notice and I need cash :(

Not sad exactly, I'm a bit...torn.

I don't like my job much at all, but I learnt today that it has gone into admin and will probs be closed before Xmas, so now I have to find another job at very short notice and I need cash :(

*hugs*

Hope you'll find a better job soon xx

Well, recently I haven't been able to think of a good reason why it isn't pointless! Nothing has happened, I just slowly seem to have fallen into this gloomy thought pattern. And don't get the wrong idea, I haven't been drinking all day for a week or anything like that.

Yes, I understand. My drinking too is not even close to being alcoholic behaviour, it's something to do on the weekend. And why? Because it's the only thing I seem to gain some pleasure these days.

Yes, I understand. My drinking too is not even close to being alcoholic behaviour, it's something to do on the weekend. And why? Because it's the only thing I seem to gain some pleasure these days.

Well I hope you feel better soon. I hope I feel better soon. I feel slightly better because I've drank quite a bit of vodka, but hopefully I will feel better of my own accord :)
If you don't mind my asking, has anything triggered your depression? If it is that....

*hugs*

Hope you'll find a better job soon xx

*hug*

Thanks Kewpie :sweet: xxx

Well I hope you feel better soon. I hope I feel better soon. I feel slightly better because I've drank quite a bit of vodka, but hopefully I will feel better of my own accord :)
If you don't mind my asking, has anything triggered your depression? If it is that....

I'm sure well get over this phase. :) My depression? Yes I've been depressed for a frightengly long time. My life is in a very sullen state (has been for a long time now) and I can't see my depression lifting as long as things are like this. One would say just to do something about the situation but when you've been trough these rather dark periods it's hard to gain control again.

I'm sure well get over this phase. :) My depression? Yes I've been depressed for a frightengly long time. My life is in a very sullen state (has been for a long time now) and I can't see my depression lifting as long as things are like this. One would say just to do something about the situation but when you've been trough these rather dark periods it's hard to gain control again.

Well if you ever need to talk (that should be in the 'most annoying phrases thread and I should be taken out to the fields and shot for saying it) you can PM me and that. Are you drinking the now too?

Well if you ever need to talk (that should be in the 'most annoying phrases thread and I should be taken out to the fields and shot for saying it) you can PM me and that. Are you drinking the now too?

Yes, I am drinking wine at the moment. It works both ways, you can also PM me if you want to. I like to think I have some knowledge of these things. That's the only good thing about suffering from depression, the back-handed gift of insight.

Yes, I am drinking wine at the moment. It works both ways, you can also PM me if you want to. I like to think I have some knowledge of these things. That's the only good thing about suffering from depression, the back-handed gift of insight.

I don't think I am depressed just...blue, but I will remember to pester you everytime I feel upset :p

I don't think I am depressed just...blue, but I will remember to pester you everytime I feel upset :p

Feel free to pester me when ever you feel like it. :guitar:

Not sad exactly, I'm a bit...torn.

I don't like my job much at all, but I learnt today that it has gone into admin and will probs be closed before Xmas, so now I have to find another job at very short notice and I need cash :(

Sorry to hear that.
With Christmas coming up, large shops and department stores usually look for extra staff.

In the last couple of weeks:

-My car broke down
-I took a shine to a girl whose flat I ended up at, only for her to show minimal interest when I texted the next day
-I lost my job
-I got a swollen ear

A friend of mine split up with a bloke, then her Grandad became quite ill, then she had creditors file for her bankruptcy.

She says serious things like people being ill puts it all into perspective. And like my mother says, "Worse things happen at sea."

This doesn't help me though.

I'm tired of doing this parenting thing all by myself.
I'm sad because the person I love lives very far away and doesn't seem to care about seeing me.
I'm pretty sure my sex life is over forever.
Grrr.

i had some worrying news at the hospital on friday and i'm pretty scared. :(

What happened?

Mrs. NRitH are now just counting the days until her grandmother finally succumbs to her cancer. We visited her again this past weekend, and this time, her goodbyes to us sounded pretty final. She's already said that she doesn't care whether she makes it past Thanksgiving, but it's possible she won't last even that long. :(

These past two years have been completely awful.

i had some worrying news at the hospital on friday and i'm pretty scared. :(

hope you're ok

I think my telly's gone bung. :(

i had some worrying news at the hospital on friday and i'm pretty scared. :(

O no! Hope everything will work out ok...

What happened?

Mrs. NRitH are now just counting the days until her grandmother finally succumbs to her cancer. We visited her again this past weekend, and this time, her goodbyes to us sounded pretty final. She's already said that she doesn't care whether she makes it past Thanksgiving, but it's possible she won't last even that long. :(

These past two years have been completely awful.


Damn, that's hard. Cancer sucks... :mad:



I wish the best for all of you.

What happened?

Mrs. NRitH are now just counting the days until her grandmother finally succumbs to her cancer. We visited her again this past weekend, and this time, her goodbyes to us sounded pretty final. She's already said that she doesn't care whether she makes it past Thanksgiving, but it's possible she won't last even that long. :(

These past two years have been completely awful.

don't know you but i know what mrs hrith is going through. say no more;)

sorry for all the sad people in this thread, i h8s being sad myself actually :o

Mrs. NRitH are now just counting the days until her grandmother finally succumbs to her cancer. We visited her again this past weekend, and this time, her goodbyes to us sounded pretty final. She's already said that she doesn't care whether she makes it past Thanksgiving, but it's possible she won't last even that long. :(

These past two years have been completely awful.

{{Family Hugs}} Sorry, buddy. Saying goodbyes are hard, but important - it gives those dying the last ounce of control as to how long they can hang on/when to let go. She sounds like a real fighter, but at peace with it all. Hang in there.

i've got to have a scan of my womb. i'm just hoping it's nothing serious.

Golly, I hope it isn't serious. When is the appointment? Many prayers to you and of course a big {{HUG}}.

My girlfriend in South Carolina dropped a major (email) bomb on all her friends in Chicago... nobody has spoken to her in a couple of months.... since then & long story short, Stage 1/early finding breast cancer lead to her deciding on a double mastectomy, she's had one chemo treatment and is beginning the reconstructive process. Had to delay pharmacy school a year, thankfully they allowed that/made an exception. I immediately called her and we caught up for an hour (all on my company's dime, thank you :p) She is doing really well and sounds good. She is a tough chick with a great attitude. It made me realize how much better I need to be at staying in touch with her (and everyone else for that matter) and to think she didn't want to worry her friends. Anyway, it's been an emotional day.

me sad, im not gonna say why for once :o

sad again, i think i killed all my serotonin :tears:

sad again, i think i killed all my serotonin :tears:

me too.

I found out this afternoon that a highschool acquaintance passed away yesterday. :( I recently found him on Facebook. I didn't know he was sick -he was battling cancer for a year. Leaves behind a wife and three kids. He was one of our highschool's top golfers. I hope he's on the perfect greens swinging his clubs...

Also, I have to go in for a follow up mammo. *tries not to worry*

I found out this afternoon that a highschool acquaintance passed away yesterday. :( I recently found him on Facebook. I didn't know he was sick -he was battling cancer for a year. Leaves behind a wife and three kids. He was one of our highschool's top golfers. I hope he's on the perfect greens swinging his clubs...

Also, I have to go in for a follow up mammo. *tries not to worry*

dayem....I hate the tests which require follow ups.
Something probably caused a misreading or something like that...It's better to check it out again and be safe!

I found out this afternoon that a highschool acquaintance passed away yesterday. :( I recently found him on Facebook. I didn't know he was sick -he was battling cancer for a year. Leaves behind a wife and three kids. He was one of our highschool's top golfers. I hope he's on the perfect greens swinging his clubs...

Also, I have to go in for a follow up mammo. *tries not to worry*

Good luck with that, Cor!

Oh, Corrissey, I'm sorry to hear about your friend.

Dont' worry too much about the repeat mam. They get lots of false positives. I'm getting a second opinion on some stuff that turned up in my final round of scans, but I'm not at all worried because they're mostly likely false positives. Even a little needle biopsy is nothing to worry about, it's better to be safe than sorry.

i just got a real scary pm about 10 minutes ago, so i am gonna go now :(
i dont whats gonna happen here now :confused:

My best furry friend is poorly.My Cavalier Spaniel Oscar has done something bad and now i have to lift him as he can't move his back.:tears:He was playing wacky races with the pigeons in the garden and I think he''s slipped a disc.He still wags his tail at me though.Dogs put humans to shame.They don't moan.

My best furry friend is poorly.My Cavalier Spaniel Oscar has done something bad and now i have to lift him as he can't move his back.:tears:He was playing wacky races with the pigeons in the garden and I think he''s slipped a disc.He still wags his tail at me though.Dogs put humans to shame.They don't moan.

Oh no Hellie! I hope your puppy feels better soon.

My best furry friend is poorly.My Cavalier Spaniel Oscar has done something bad and now i have to lift him as he can't move his back.:tears:He was playing wacky races with the pigeons in the garden and I think he''s slipped a disc.He still wags his tail at me though.Dogs put humans to shame.They don't moan.

NOOOO that's sad... take him to the vet so they can get him the help he needs.. hopefully he'll be fine... give him lotz of luvvv, poor thing :(

me sad now :(

We're probably going to get evicted from our apartment. We both work, but due to the economy my boyfriend hasn't been able to work very much (about once a week!). We can't afford rent this month. So when we get evicted, we can't get another apartment, and we'll have to move in with his parents (an hour away, in a hurricane-ruined house). I'll have to drive an hour to go to college and my bf to work. And I'll lose my job.:(

We're probably going to get evicted from our apartment. We both work, but due to the economy my boyfriend hasn't been able to work very much (about once a week!). We can't afford rent this month. So when we get evicted, we can't get another apartment, and we'll have to move in with his parents (an hour away, in a hurricane-ruined house). I'll have to drive an hour to go to college and my bf to work. And I'll lose my job.:(

Damn, Cassius, that's a whole lot of suck. Sorry to hear that. :(

Will you really get evicted after missing just one month's rent?? :eek:
Good luck to you and your bf, must be an awful situation... :(

Damn, Cassius, that's a whole lot of suck. Sorry to hear that. :(

Thanks NRitH. I'm still holding out hope that we can come up with the money. We're also out of groceries right now. We've been eating off $50 for about two weeks, and it's almost gone. Being broke sucks. :tears:

Will you really get evicted after missing just one month's rent?? :eek:


Yeah. I do understand that though, because one month can turn into two months, three months.... :(

Cassius, pay whatever you can, and send it certified mail. If they sign for it and accept it, you can use that as evidence that they were willing to accept a payment plan.

Don't move out willingly unless you want to. As far as I know, it takes a long time to get an eviction in court. And unless there is a huge demand for rental property in your area, a landlord is more likely to tolerate a good tenant, taking care of the apartment and paying what they can, than risk it sitting empty, earning no rent, or trying new tenants who might trash the place and still not pay.

Since your boyfriend is not working steadily, would it be possible for him to offer to do repair and maintenance work for the landlord and apply it toward the rent? If so, make sure they settle on a dollar value for the work, write it down, countersign it, and each keep a copy.

You're not the only one in this situation, obviously. It's scary times out there.

We're probably going to get evicted from our apartment. We both work, but due to the economy my boyfriend hasn't been able to work very much (about once a week!). We can't afford rent this month. So when we get evicted, we can't get another apartment, and we'll have to move in with his parents (an hour away, in a hurricane-ruined house). I'll have to drive an hour to go to college and my bf to work. And I'll lose my job.:(

Holy crap! I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you guys can figure it out. Looks like Preggers idea sounds like a good one. Good luck!!!

Thanks for the advice everyone. :) Esp you Pregs, everything you said made since.

I don't think my bf could get a second job, however. Not because he wouldn't be willing to, but because his job is strange. He's always on call, meaning he never knows when he's going to work. So he could be at his other job, when his first one calls. That wouldn't work.

The reason he hasn't worked is because he works for a railroad. We live in a very industrial city and the trains transport the materials back and forth to the plants. However, lately the plants have been laying off people left and right, and no work is being done. So no work at the plants means no work at the railroad.

You're right Pregs. It's happening to others as well. Others have it much worse than I do.

I don't think that the certified mail trick can be used to show that the landlord is willing to accept a payment plan. After all, he can sign for the envelope without knowing what's in it, right?

I don't think that the certified mail trick can be used to show that the landlord is willing to accept a payment plan. After all, he can sign for the envelope without knowing what's in it, right?


Yes, you're right. See if he cashes it, though. If he does, that means he accepts the money and accepts that it's not the full amount. It's underhanded, but it's a trick that's been used against our company before. Hopefully it won't get that far, it costs money to evict someone. It's absolutely worth a shot to be honest and cooperative with the landlord, he could do worse than have you as his tenant.

Sorry to hear this Cassius.
But listen to Pregs....No one wants to evict (or even foreclose) as long as they are getting something.

Yes, you're right. See if he cashes it, though. If he does, that means he accepts the money and accepts that it's not the full amount. It's underhanded, but it's a trick that's been used against our company before. Hopefully it won't get that far, it costs money to evict someone. It's absolutely worth a shot to be honest and cooperative with the landlord, he could do worse than have you as his tenant.

Thank you Pregs. I talked to bf, he thinks we can scrape by this month (I don' know how, but apparently we can) and he's supposed to get his bonus next month.

Thank you Pregs. I talked to bf, he thinks we can scrape by this month (I don' know how, but apparently we can) and he's supposed to get his bonus next month.

How does he still get a bonus if his company's in the shitter?

I have never once worked for a place that gave bonuses.

How does he still get a bonus if his company's in the shitter?

I have never once worked for a place that gave bonuses.

Some union thing. Their union is great.

Some union thing. Their union is great.

aww Cassius, I wish I had alot of money cuz I'd give you a bunch!! :o:)

Very sorry to hear of your troubles, Cassius. Do what you can and see if you can't come to a compromise with your landlord. Is it an individual or a management company? The latter would be a lot harder to negotiate with.

Our tenants lost their jobs around the holidays and wanted to just get up and out and break the lease (not so fast, kids...) They've been great tenants for a couple of years and we agreed to work together to get thru it -they would pay us what they could, help show the place to prospective tenants, shovel the snow, etc. plus the market is so bad...it took us 3 mos and a lower rent to get new tenants.

Pregs is right- from a landlord's perspective, good tenants being cooperative and doing what they can beats an empty apartment any day. We took what our tenants could give us and now they are moving out in 2 weeks. They owe us one month's rent in the end, so they won't get their security deposit back. I feel bad, but it's a business...it could have been worse (zero rent money, late charges, liens, etc.) all around and times are so bad that we just worked it out together the best we could. It worked to their benefit too as he found some work and she is going to teach English overseas. Also, evictions and legal expenses do cost too much money and nobody (renters or landlords) want to be dragged into that. In these times, I should think your landlord can be a little more lenient. Good luck & keep us posted. *HUGS*

nothing has worked so far, i tried sleeping, but it did not happen, the medicine just did not work :tears:
i dont know what to do now :confused: maybe if i eat something...

i just sold my hold steady boys and girls in america vinyl on ebay and it only sold for 26 dollars :tears: i've seen it go for between 40 and 50. if i had known it would only go for $26 i would not have gotten rid of it. i undercharged for shipping too. and i really need money. i'm sad. :tears::tears::tears:

i cant find my toothbrush, and i dont feel too good
and i have work later today, so me sad now :(

I lost my knitting patterns when my previous computer died. I thought I had them backed up on a memory card, but when I opened the file today it was just the photos I'd saved, not the patterns. :tears:

I lost my knitting patterns when my previous computer died. I thought I had them backed up on a memory card, but when I opened the file today it was just the photos I'd saved, not the patterns. :tears:

*hugs*

At least your threads in Solo and TWA are traceable.

Hope you'll find some of them from other sites you posted.

Liverpool lost and have it all to do in the second leg. :(:mad:

I'm sad I had to hear my mother cry today but now everything's ok and nana's surgery went fine!

Everyone on my Facebook seems jubilant. I don't like it.

Liverpool lost and have it all to do in the second leg. :(:mad:

Have faith, it's not beyond us...:(

and now I feel like crying, I'm having one of those days :( anyone else?

happens to me sometimes.

but then again it's "asleep"

happens to me sometimes.

but then again it's "asleep"

Thats true...I'm now listening to heaven knows...:rolleyes:

Yeah. Completely. Fuck. :(

Nice merge you Nazis.

The 'Most depressing Smiths song' thread would've been more apt though really.

Yeah 'Asleep' is pretty bad.

Im peed off too.:(

and now I feel like crying, I'm having one of those days :( anyone else?

Had toothache all day and I DETEST bank holidays! :(

Everyone on my Facebook seems jubilant. I don't like it.

Yes, why is it that everyone on Facebook seems to be glowing with happiness? GRRRRR......

Nice merge you Nazis.

The 'Most depressing Smiths song' thread would've been more apt though really.

Yeah 'Asleep' is pretty bad.

Its ridiculous the way these thread are merged although its not depressing...well not much :p

and now I feel like crying, I'm having one of those days :( anyone else?

Had toothache all day and I DETEST bank holidays! :(


Blue jag ruined the thread when he went off topic! :D

How's your tooth?

Blue jag ruined the thread when he went off topic! :D

How's your tooth?

I will live EP! x :thumb:

i have no tickets. want 23rd may gig ones. terrible terrible touts:tears:

I got sad thinking about all the people I've loved that have died.

Just to bring you all down.:D

i have no tickets. want 23rd may gig ones. terrible terrible touts:tears:

i'm a tout:mad:

i'm a tout:mad:

:eek:

That's why you go to all the football matches?

Disgraceful. :p

:eek:

That's why you go to all the football matches?

Disgraceful.

Kewpie i go to all my team's football matches because i:sweet: them, i also take my son and more often than not my dad comes as well:thumb:

My eyes are all red from crying in the bathrooms. How stupid is that?

My phone was confiscated on Friday. This is our first day back after the bank holiday and I have been to the main office to collect it EVERY CLASS. I also sat outside there all through lunch, waiting for the headteacher.

Yeah, ok, she's busy, I can understand that. BUT I was told that if I came by during lunch I would be able to speak to her and get my phone back, and that was an appointment made by a secretary on the phone to the head herself. I'm pissed off.

I think my friend hates me and I need the phone to apologise and make sure she's ok. I need to call my mother about a concert I should be playing at tonight- I was only told this morning and I haven't got my viola or any way of getting to the venue and if I don't show up the conductor will fucking murder me regardless of what excuse I have.

uuugghhh, fml.

My dog had to be put down, and I loved that bloody great twit to bits. :tears:

My dog had to be put down, and I loved that bloody great twit to bits. :tears:

AWW Poppy Im so sorry to hear this. x:(

Oh dear, I got an email from one of my friends who has to give up travelling to see UK gigs next week.

Her collegues are so paranoid about swine flu although risk of infection in UK is minute.

I'm really gutted to imagine how she feels. :(

Right now I feel like R. Kelly in "Real Talk", but with more crying.

Right now I feel like R. Kelly in "Real Talk", but with more crying.

Cheer up hun! :thumb::):)

Cheer up hun! :thumb::):)
Thanks. :)

been kind of sad since Sunday when I talked to my mom :(
she cried a lot, told me that the bank is taking their house away by the end of the month and they are declaring bankruptcy
its an extra depressing thing for us because she also unnecessarily apoligizes to me about this happening because I gave her the money for the down payment on it years ago :straightface:
so now another formerly positive thing I did is tinged with darkness
and I honestly don't know where she and my family are going to be next month :confused:

been kind of sad since Sunday when I talked to my mom :(
she cried a lot, told me that the bank is taking their house away by the end of the month and they are declaring bankruptcy
its an extra depressing thing for us because she also unnecessarily apoligizes to me about this happening because I gave her the money for the down payment on it years ago :straightface:
so now another formerly positive thing I did is tinged with darkness
and I honestly don't know where she and my family are going to be next month :confused:

How awful. It may be tinged with darkness but not because of you. Someone once told me that chaos and sadness follow me but I refuse to believe it and you should too.

How awful. It may be tinged with darkness but not because of you. Someone once told me that chaos and sadness follow me but I refuse to believe it and you should too.

Oh I do, I was happy to help when I could, I just wish she would leave it at that :straightface:
I mean, after all, now I am just worried about how and where they are going to live :confused: its real depressing :(

I am actually poor. Wish I was an MP.

I am actually poor. Wish I was an MP.

Yeah, well I wish I had a normal sleep pattern. We can't all get what want.

Yeah, well I wish I had a normal sleep pattern. We can't all get what want.

Yeah, well I'm in want well more than you. I also need a normal sleeping pattern. Now that coupled with poverty clearly equals cruelty. Good karma's got to give soon.

Yeah, well I'm in want well more than you. I also need a normal sleeping pattern. Now that coupled with poverty clearly equals cruelty. Good karma's got to give soon.

Well seeing as most of your posts center around being in the pub, you've no doubt squandered your money on wine (lager) and women (loosely speaking) ;)

Well seeing as most of your posts center around being in the pub, you've no doubt squandered your money on wine (lager) and women (loosely speaking) ;)

You've only gone and hit the nail on the head there haven't you :o Except, I don't associate with loose women, only the classy ones (sometimes) and I have been known to hit wine bars (sometimes).

I found out this morning that my parents had to put their dog to sleep Weds. :( She was 13. Poor thing had alzheimers or dementia or something...def not quality of life anymore. RIP, Holly the border collie. :tears:

RIP, Holly the border collie. :tears:

Im sorry Cor, that's terrible! I didn't even know animals could get dementia...:(

Im sorry Cor, that's terrible! I didn't even know animals could get dementia...:(

Thanks. By pure chance, I saw her last weekend so that's comforting. I feel bad for my Dad, she was his favorite (out of 9 dogs they've had). Hard to imagine him crying while holding her in his arms...:tears: The vet couldn't be sure what she had -she was losing her eyesight and hearing, but her mind was gone too...she'd walk into a corner and stand there wondering what to do next, or would pace or run into things...she wasn't even laying down anymore unless they made her, then she'd lay there all day. She was losing bladder control too. Their other two dogs and cats are all looking around for her now. :( I will be inconsolable when I lose my cat. My first pet outside of living with parents. I've been giving him extra love today. :sweet: