Do you consider yourself good-looking, attractive and if so, are you approached much?

Ive got red her i.e. ginger and pale skin and im a size 12 not a zero. What guy is going to be attracted to that?

I envy gorgeous people :(

oftentimes, when i go out dancing, ladies can't keep their eyes off me...





http://www.dixienoveltydistributors.com/webdnd/Jumbo_sunglasses_pink_1.JPG

Ive got red her i.e. ginger and pale skin and im a size 12 not a zero. What guy is going to be attracted to that?

I envy gorgeous people :(

aw, i thought blondes tease but redheads please?
nothing worse than being a redheaded BOY though. redheaded girls are rarely hideous (But i've seen em- and no, not you!!!) but redheaded boys... whew. some look simply evil!
I am sure i've just made certain all my children will be redheads and i'll have to erase my ramblings, hahaha
I'm alright looking. Im actually happy i dont look like a typical 'hot chick' or frat girl. its my personality that usually attracts people anyway. and i've noticed, in my long 27 years, that any super-duper hot guy that has ever asked me out was usually a little insano. I prefer normal-good-looking dudes. geeky, normal-good-looking dudes. Tall geeky normal looking dudes with a little bit more to love.

I've already made my contributions to the gene pool, so it really doesn't matter whether I'm attractive or get approached. I picked "other."

I've already made my contributions to the gene pool, so it really doesn't matter whether I'm attractive or get approached. I picked "other."

does that mean "im hideously ugly and i donated to a sperm bank" LOL YOU KNOW I AM KIDDING, CARL!!

Ive got red her i.e. ginger and pale skin and im a size 12

...and your problem is? :confused:

does that mean "im hideously ugly and i donated to a sperm bank" LOL YOU KNOW I AM KIDDING, CARL!!

*shakes head*

*shakes head*

hey, your kids are redheads and they arent unattractive. tell her redheads rock! :D

oftentimes, when i go out dancing, ladies can't keep their eyes off me...





http://www.dixienoveltydistributors.com/webdnd/Jumbo_sunglasses_pink_1.JPG

Dude , i saw this chick checking you out all night !

http://rsb.info.nih.gov/ij/images/baboon.jpg

aw, i thought blondes tease but redheads please?
nothing worse than being a redheaded BOY though. redheaded girls are rarely hideous (But i've seen em- and no, not you!!!) but redheaded boys... whew. some look simply evil!

My first love was ginger. I adored him from afar for years. He was, it turned out, pretty evil, but I don't think it had to do with his hair colour.

hey, your kids are redheads and they arent unattractive. tell her redheads rock! :D

Do you honestly want me thinking about my redheads getting dates? Maybe in 30 years or so I'll be ready to acknowledge that thought.

Dude , i saw this chick checking you out all night !

http://rsb.info.nih.gov/ij/images/baboon.jpg

do you know if she likes echo & the bunnymen? they're my favourite pop group.

My first love was ginger. I adored him from afar for years. He was, it turned out, pretty evil, but I don't think it had to do with his hair colour.

hahaha, i dated a ginger, but it wasn't his hair or freckles that turned me away... it was his vanilla personality... he seemed pretty cool until i moved in with him and i was like...oops.

Do you honestly want me thinking about my redheads getting dates? Maybe in 30 years or so I'll be ready to acknowledge that thought.
30? seriously? Wow i didnt know your kids were negative 14 years old!

do you know if she likes echo & the bunnymen? they're my favourite pop group.

Wow, how weird, this is the second time this band was brought up in conversation today (for me). and still i wonder why i havent heard of these people?

do you know if she likes echo & the bunnymen? they're my favourite pop group.

Well she has "The Cutter" as her myspace background song so i bet she does

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/23/30271368_dbe04745ee.jpg

hahaha, i dated a ginger, but it wasn't his hair or freckles that turned me away... it was his vanilla personality... he seemed pretty cool until i moved in with him and i was like...oops.

Freckles can be cute....:)

Wow, how weird, this is the second time this band was brought up in conversation today (for me). and still i wonder why i havent heard of these people?



Oh my , you must check out their music ASAP , you will probably like it quite a bit .

Echo and The Bunnymen used to be quite a "thing" in the 80's

http://www.musicfolio.com/modernrock/echo_songs.jpg

Oh my , you must check out their music ASAP , you will probably like it quite a bit .

Echo and The Bunnymen used to be quite a "thing" in the 80's

http://www.musicfolio.com/modernrock/echo_songs.jpg

My friend offhandedly mentioned them today and I said "Who?" and I got a BIG LONG HUGE sigh from that comment. I told him, well, you're old, it probably missed my pre-birth music radar ;) i was kidding he's only a few years older than me.
I'm actually listening to 'the cutter' right now. im diggin them. thanks!:cool:

I voted for "No, I'm not attractive but, I do get asked out".

Which is correct. It's funny though that the only time I do get asked out (not that I'm looking) its usually around "last call" time and everyone in the bar is hammered and making their drunken last ditch efforts. haha!

Such is life. I actually find it commical and comforting in a weird way that no other times do people approach me. Thank god.

I voted for "No, I'm not attractive but, I do get asked out".

Which is correct. It's funny though that the only time I do get asked out (not that I'm looking) its usually around "last call" time and everyone in the bar is hammered and making their drunken last ditch efforts. haha!

Such is life. I actually find it commical and comforting in a weird way that no other times do people approach me. Thank god.

First off, I've seen you IRL and you're so cute you make me want to puke kittens.
Second it is good to not be approached sometimes, because guys in bars are often a bit on the creepy side IMHO.

I am good-looking but I'm not asked to go out.

I am good-looking but I'm not asked to go out.

its because you're just too hot. you're the head cheerleader that didnt have a prom date. no one feels worthy.

I guess I'd say I'm the shiznit! :D
Actually, I'd say I'm alright looking...but don't get asked out too often. It's got more to do with my coming across as rude because I'm usually a little quiet until I get to know ya. Then again, it could just be because I'm fugly. :rolleyes:

its because you're just too hot. you're the head cheerleader that didnt have a prom date. no one feels worthy.

Are you being sarcastic?
It took me some time to realised I'm not ugly/plain (don't know the right word to use). Maybe I should have written I THINK I am ...
I hate cheerleaders, they always seem to me like girls with an empty brain, but in Italy we don't have cheerleaders.
I'm happy with myself.

Am I alone in thinking that we need some more pictorial proof in this thread in order to help others judge whether they're as hot or as fugly as they think they are?

Am I alone in thinking that we need some more pictorial proof in this thread in order to help others judge whether they're as hot or as fugly as they think they are?

Not a bad idea , feel free to post yours

I know I am f'ugly and I don't get approached. (to answer my own thread)

It would be nice though, but, it's not meant to happen & I just don't care.

Are you being sarcastic?
It took me some time to realised I'm not ugly/plain (don't know the right word to use). Maybe I should have written I THINK I am ...
I hate cheerleaders, they always seem to me like girls with an empty brain, but in Italy we don't have cheerleaders.
I'm happy with myself.

i dont even know you! I thought you were being sarcastic so i was just playing a supporting role.

Am I alone in thinking that we need some more pictorial proof in this thread in order to help others judge whether they're as hot or as fugly as they think they are?
probably a good idea, but hten again, a)we can post other peoples pictures and b)some pics of me look good, others...not so much lol
I know I am f'ugly and I don't get approached. (to answer my own thread)

It would be nice though, but, it's not meant to happen & I just don't care.

ugly is in the eye of the beholder :)

I fit into the "not particularly attractive but not ugly either" catagory I reckon...a classic "plain jane"....but I bagged the man I wanted!;) Which just goes to prove that men DO infact make passes at girls who wear glasses!

wowweeee

I know I am f'ugly and I don't get approached. (to answer my own thread)

It would be nice though, but, it's not meant to happen & I just don't care.

I'm plain as a pikestaff; always have been, always will be. When I was young, it made me miserable. But I'm now happier and better loved than many of the good looking people I know.

probably a good idea, but hten again, a)we can post other peoples pictures and b)some pics of me look good, others...not so much lol


ugly is in the eye of the beholder :)

Aww , you're a cutie pie and your pics as a child are as sweet as they come :)

Aww , you're a cutie pie and your pics as a child are as sweet as they come :)

EK????????!!!!!!!!!
took me long enough to unravel that one... unless you're not EK and just strangely similar to him and saw my flickr on 43things.

Ive got red her i.e. ginger and pale skin and im a size 12 not a zero. What guy is going to be attracted to that?

I envy gorgeous people :(


You really shouldn`t think that.Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.You look very nice anyway.

And it really depends on an individual view of gorgeous anyway.I used to be a beauty therapist and I can make anyone look gorgeous-and without slapping too much make up on.Really its amazing how many gorgeous "stars" look dreadful without the slap on.Or the hairdresser etc.

In fact I make a silk purse out of a sows ear every morning when i get up.:)

I am good-looking but I'm not asked to go out.


perhaps you've got a shite personality?

Usually in social surroundings I look like something the dog dragged in but at home..by myself...I make my mouth water.

Never been asked out, never tried to ask anyone out

unfortunately, girls don't throw themselves at me as they did when i was in college. Oh the young, so ready and willing. Now everything has to mean and count so much more (or at least it does for me).

Mmm, I think I'm pretty darn cute. Funny thing is, when I'm dolled up I don't get hit on much. When I'm all sweaty, no makeup, hair in a ponytail and in gym/running attire that the guys tend to swarm. Come to think of it, I've met some of my coolest boyfriends when I've looked my worst.

there are about 4 or 5 ex users on solo (who asked for their profiles/accounts) to be deleted who would love this thread....and they all like echo and the bunnymen.

there are about 4 or 5 ex users on solo (who asked for their profiles/accounts) to be deleted who would love this thread....and they all like echo and the bunnymen.

hahaha i know who you're talking about!



me, i dunno. i never get properly asked out, just hit on by skeevy guys. not sure what that means. :confused:

Ive got red her i.e. ginger and pale skin and im a size 12 not a zero. What guy is going to be attracted to that?

I envy gorgeous people :(

Swap the size 12 for a 10 and you've got me! Must be a scottish thing. Don't go out much, except to gigs. I go on my own, have a great time and come home on my own.

hahaha i know who you're talking about!



me, i dunno. i never get properly asked out, just hit on by skeevy guys. not sure what that means. :confused:

yes, i don't know what a "skeevy guy" is?

speaking as a platonic solo friend, you are a pretty young lady Nugz.

yes, i don't know what a "skeevy guy" is?

speaking as a platonic solo friend, you are a pretty young lady Nugz.

skeevy, you know, like...gross, shady?

thank you explory, come to Jerz and ask me out then! haha

yes, i don't know what a "skeevy guy" is?

Knowing nugz, you can probably guess what a "skeevy guy" is! :D

Knowing nugz, you can probably guess what a "skeevy guy" is! :D

ah, whats THAT supposed to mean, mister! :mad::p

ah, whats THAT supposed to mean, mister! :mad::p

Nuffin'! We've heard you describe the kind of guys that hit on you, that's all! DON'T KILL ME!

Nuffin'! We've heard you describe the kind of guys that hit on you, that's all! DON'T KILL ME!

true true. i have the worst luck ever! :o

hahaha i know who you're talking about!



me, i dunno. i never get properly asked out, just hit on by skeevy guys. not sure what that means. :confused:
who is he talking about? PM me the answer!!!

ah, whats THAT supposed to mean, mister! :mad::p

yeah! (I'm her assistant today)

I consider myself, part of the furniture.

http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/7434/november007ut6.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

http://img406.imageshack.us/img406/9001/november005hn1.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

I think that I must be too attractive and it's just too intimidating to approach me. I've read that this is common with really really attractive people. That must be it.

ames we all think you're too cute!!
and dave, i'd love to see what you look like.

ames we all think you're too cute!!
and dave, i'd love to see what you look like.

Haha, thanks, I have been compared to a Moomin before and I SEE the resemblance :p

Dave, I want to see what you look like too!

So, if you're f'ugly (like me), how does one get approached? Should you totally change yourself?

you dont have to be good looking to get approached , what you need is confidence

i dont care what people think im happy ... and im ok

So, if you're f'ugly (like me), how does one get approached? Should you totally change yourself?

of course not. always be yourself. not everyones idea of attractiveness is the same anyway. just be confident. i think thats really important. if you arent naturally confident, then fake it til you make it.

So, if you're f'ugly (like me), how does one get approached? Should you totally change yourself?

I'm 'f'ugly' (see above).. but what's the point changing yourself? You'd never feel free to be yourself.

you dont have to be good looking to get approached , what you need is confidence

i dont care what people think im happy ... and im ok

great minds think alike!

It's so funny how people answered now, no offense.

People always say, "oh, you're such a good catch, good job, educated, nice, kind, non-complainer, funny, etc." YET.....if this is such the case, then, why am I NOT caught?! LOL

I am sorry but, I believe if you're attractive to a lot of people, your life will be so nice, easy and of course, filled w/ love and non-loneliness. Think about it.

I have fluctuated weight so much, cut and styled my hair, worn makeup or been a plain-face but, it's always the same.

I just feel that attractive people too, will always be even approached and f'ugly people have a decision to make, give up & be alone (happy or unhappy).

It's so funny how people answered now, no offense.

People always say, "oh, you're such a good catch, good job, educated, nice, kind, non-complainer, funny, etc." YET.....if this is such the case, then, why am I NOT caught?! LOL

I am sorry but, I believe if you're attractive to a lot of people, your life will be so nice, easy and of course, filled w/ love and non-loneliness. Think about it.
I have fluctuated weight so much, cut and styled my hair, worn makeup or been a plain-face but, it's always the same.

I just feel that attractive people too, will always be even approached and f'ugly people have a decision to make, give up & be alone (happy or unhappy).

I'm sorry, but I'm gonna venture to guess you are young and just havent had enough life experience yet? I dont care how goddamn pretty you are, doesnt mean your life is gonna be easy. thats so irrelevant.

Mmm, I think I'm pretty darn cute. Funny thing is, when I'm dolled up I don't get hit on much. When I'm all sweaty, no makeup, hair in a ponytail and in gym/running attire that the guys tend to swarm. Come to think of it, I've met some of my coolest boyfriends when I've looked my worst.

But that's what's attractive to guys. Most of the fancy make up/dolled up stuff isn't that impressive to guys, I think it's mostly women "dressed up for each other" (whether consciously or not) as Van Morrisson said. Sweats and a ponytail are where it's at.

No hope for me. I never wear sweats and my hair's too short for a ponytail. Plus, I never really do the workout thing anyways.

There are plenty of ways to be attractive, though, which includes short hair and all sorts of other clothing options. I should broaden my previous statement to say that women in their natural condition are usually at least as attractive as when they are "dolled up."

Guys wouldn't ask to take their picture with you if you weren't attractive, I don't think. Unless you're a famous ugly person.

But that's what's attractive to guys. Most of the fancy make up/dolled up stuff isn't that impressive to guys, I think it's mostly women "dressed up for each other" (whether consciously or not) as Van Morrisson said. Sweats and a ponytail are where it's at.

yet, when i dress nice and throw on some make up, i get ten times more male attention. please explain!!

oh mozzy1, i'll say it again confidence truly is key.

I don't get approached much, but that might be because I'm at the wrong places. I think I'm decent looking doesn't really bother me.

I don't know. I think I must have a very polarizing face; people either find me very attractive or very unnattractive. I've never been able to figure it out, and I don't really care to. I'm growing more and more comfortable with myself these days, probably because i'm seeing someone. :D

I'm growing more and more comfortable with myself these days, probably because i'm seeing someone. :D

You're onto something here. Many people are attracted to those who are already attached; maybe it's the confidence that it gives you (like you said), maybe it's the thrill of competition, or maybe it's because it's a signal that you're not totally a loser if somebody else can bear to be with you. Or all three. Those of you feel unattractive can get a friend of whatever gender you're trying to attract to act like your romantic interest, and then watch what happens.

From what I've seen of the few members who have posted their pics here, nobody's even remotely irredeemably fugly. I'd be happy to be proven wrong, though.

Oh, yeah, here's me:
http://images.wikia.com/uncyclopedia/images/thumb/3/3a/Fugly.jpg/180px-Fugly.jpg

You're onto something here. Many people are attracted to those who are already attached; maybe it's the confidence that it gives you (like you said), maybe it's the thrill of competition, or maybe it's because it's a signal that you're not totally a loser if somebody else can bear to be with you. Or all three. Those of you feel unattractive can get a friend of whatever gender you're trying to attract to act like your romantic interest, and then watch what happens.

From what I've seen of the few members who have posted their pics here, nobody's even remotely irredeemably fugly. I'd be happy to be proven wrong, though.

Oh, yeah, here's me:
http://images.wikia.com/uncyclopedia/images/thumb/3/3a/Fugly.jpg/180px-Fugly.jpg

liar.

liar.

Damn, caught again! Okay, this is me:
http://www.tonyrogers.com/humor/images/brian_peppers1.jpg

Folks, if you don't look like these guys, then there is hope for you. Really.

Damn, caught again! Okay, this is me:
http://www.tonyrogers.com/humor/images/brian_peppers1.jpg

Folks, if you don't look like these guys, then there is hope for you. Really.

HAHAHA. theres a guy that i work with, and I told some of my coworkers that he looked like that dude!!!

I dont get approached much,I like to think I`m attractive.Its not all about looks u could have a supermodel girlfriend who is as thick as a goal post and cant hold a conversation and who is shallow as a puddle.I pefer a ladie who can hold a conversation .

HAHAHA. theres a guy that i work with, and I told some of my coworkers that he looked like that dude!!!

I'll bet that did wonders for your working relationship.

Do people actually do this? I thought this was something you only see in movies and Lifetime television shows. And in the end the friends always end up falling in love. Aww.

Hmmm, now that I think about it, I may have done this, only unconsciously. I never (and I mean never) talked to a girl before I was a junior in high school, when, oddly, I started hanging out with two of them and was suddenly "interesting" to others. I don't think that I ever made that connection until now...

I'll bet that did wonders for your working relationship.

well I didnt tell him to his face, but my coworkers thought it was hilarious! cuz like...he does, sorta!

well I didnt tell him to his face, but my coworkers thought it was hilarious! cuz like...he does, sorta!

Did you say that he was a current coworker? You'll have to snap a pic of him for all of us to enjoy.

Did you say that he was a current coworker? You'll have to snap a pic of him for all of us to enjoy.

yes he is. and hes a douche too.

And did you end up marrying one of these "friends" from way back when?

Oh, the punch line. I didn't marry either friend, but I did still hang out with one of them when we went to college, and yes, I think that her presence was a contributing factor, however small, to my winding up with someone else, the woman that I'm now married to, 16 years later.

ames we all think you're too cute!!
and dave, i'd love to see what you look like.

Haha, thanks, I have been compared to a Moomin before and I SEE the resemblance :p

Dave, I want to see what you look like too!

all of my pics have full frontal nudity so they are against the rules, sorry.

all of my pics have full frontal nudity so they are against the rules, sorry.

PM us then!

And now getting back to what I do best....

The TRUTH about Brian Peppers... (Yes that little midget freak has a name)

http://www.wikitruth.info/index.php?title=Uncensored:Brian_Peppers

Also search the following....

Brian Peppers on http://www.ytmnd.com

And now getting back to what I do best....

The TRUTH about Brian Peppers... (Yes that little midget freak has a name)

http://www.wikitruth.info/index.php?title=Uncensored:Brian_Peppers

Also search the following....

Brian Peppers on http://www.ytmnd.com

Brian Peppers haunts my dreams. and sits 2 desks away from me at work.

I am not the best looking guy every created but I am also aware that I am not the worst looking... those that have seen can be the judge.

As far as being approached... again... sometimes yes... sometimes no...

Currently not looking nor caring.

As far as girls... I have dated the sorority girls and the library girls. Depends on who I find interesting at the time.

not attractive, never approached. oh well. "that's life", as they say.

I'm hideous, and nobody ever looked at me twice

One person who responded here has seen me (vicarinatutu).

What I'm asking basically is, if people keep telling you all of the time that you're such a catch and good and all but then, why aren't those people approached?

What am I doing wrong? How can I be approached?

I'm psycho now b/c I'm way older and my biological clock is ticking! I want a family, kids, white picket fence the whole thing. Yet, I've exhausted ALL options. And, I've done the opposite too, by not thinking on love, waiting patiently and living life so, even THAT isn't happening.

Seriously, after my trip, I'm SO done w/ all of this but, good luck to all of you singles out here & I hope you get the love you want & deserve.

Seriously, after my trip [...]

how many holidays have you been on, this year??

Brian Peppers haunts my dreams. and sits 2 desks away from me at work.

listen nugz if you don't send me a camera phone pic of this guy soon, i'm gonna make NJ and PA dry states. I have that power! I do! really!!

I'm hideous, and nobody ever looked at me twice

you arent hideous, just need to move that record from in front of your face so we can see you is all! :);)

listen nugz if you don't send me a camera phone pic of this guy soon, i'm gonna make NJ and PA dry states. I have that power! I do! really!!



nooooooooooooooooooo! :eek:

listen nugz if you don't send me a camera phone pic of this guy soon, i'm gonna make NJ and PA dry states. I have that power! I do! really!!

I thought that nugz was already in the process of doing just that!

Srsly, get us that pic!

I thought that nugz was already in the process of doing just that!

Srsly, get us that pic!

hahaha, i dunno. i dont want him to get mad and kill me.

hahaha, i dunno. i dont want him to get mad and kill me.

True. He wouldn't even have to kill you--he could just stare at you with those lurvly eyes. That would freak me out something fierce.

True. He wouldn't even have to kill you--he could just stare at you with those lurvly eyes. That would freak me out something fierce.

well he does have a temper. he freaked out on me once for no reason and told me to kiss his ass. he's weird, probably close to 50 and still lives with his mom. he does have big bug eyes too! he's super creepy. i just picture him sitting him at home, staring out the window, stroking a cat. like the villian in Inspector Gadget.

well he does have a temper. he freaked out on me once for no reason and told me to kiss his ass. he's weird, probably close to 50 and still lives with his mom. he does have big bug eyes too! he's super creepy. i just picture him sitting him at home, staring out the window, stroking a cat. like the villian in Inspector Gadget.

http://i109.photobucket.com/albums/n58/geochrissi/dr_claw.gif
Bwahahahahahaha! :D

how many holidays have you been on, this year??


2 so far:

1) August 29-September 4: Iceland, mainly for business & house-searching

2) November 1-November 10: UK, Manchester/Liverpool/Blackpool, it was supposed to be a planning meeting (meaning for our WEDDING) w/ the guy I had a ring with. However, he dumped my arse on Albert Dock so, I'm back to square one. Yet, I don't care, I am so done & I have thrown in the towel.

I'm due to fly off to Liverpool on December 6 again. I'm seeing Echo & The Bunnymen twice. I am not excited about it, however. I mean, I've only waited my entire life for that proposal and I got it. Yet, look what happened. The holidays approaching are not for me to be celebrating. Sure, I have lots to be happy & grateful about it's just I am not b/c of what he did to me. I don't think too many people too, would be happy & celebrating after their fiancee' just dumped them w/out any form of explanation & was rude in the process.

As for the 2 Bunnymen gigs, I've waited since I was 12 years old to see them in their home city for Xmas, no less. Yet, I'm not happy at all. I'm even considering selling my tickets. I have some time left. I have them for both December 8 & 9th's gigs too. I would loose $200 though, on my flight arrangement but, I can get a full refund w/ the hotel. As for going to any form of meet-up, that is not likely to happen. Long story there.

So...on that note, I still have to decide....


ON A SIDE NOTE:

I would really like to see if photos were posted in this thread whether or not, people would say certain people (as myself) ARE f'ugly..... It would be interesting to see who was really & brutally honest.

http://i109.photobucket.com/albums/n58/geochrissi/dr_claw.gif
Bwahahahahahaha! :D

HAHAHAHA.

2 so far:

1) August 29-September 4: Iceland, mainly for business & house-searching

2) November 1-November 10: UK, Manchester/Liverpool/Blackpool, it was supposed to be a planning meeting (meaning for our WEDDING) w/ the guy I had a ring with. However, he dumped my arse on Albert Dock so, I'm back to square one. Yet, I don't care, I am so done & I have thrown in the towel.

I'm due to fly off to Liverpool on December 6 again. I'm seeing Echo & The Bunnymen twice. I am not excited about it, however. I mean, I've only waited my entire life for that proposal and I got it. Yet, look what happened. The holidays approaching are not for me to be celebrating. Sure, I have lots to be happy & grateful about it's just I am not b/c of what he did to me. I don't think too many people too, would be happy & celebrating after their fiancee' just dumped them w/out any form of explanation & was rude in the process.

As for the 2 Bunnymen gigs, I've waited since I was 12 years old to see them in their home city for Xmas, no less. Yet, I'm not happy at all. I'm even considering selling my tickets. I have some time left. I have them for both December 8 & 9th's gigs too. I would loose $200 though, on my flight arrangement but, I can get a full refund w/ the hotel. As for going to any form of meet-up, that is not likely to happen. Long story there.

So...on that note, I still have to decide....


ON A SIDE NOTE:

I would really like to see if photos were posted in this thread whether or not, people would say certain people (as myself) ARE f'ugly..... It would be interesting to see who was really & brutally honest.


* you should still go on your trip. yes, you'll probably still feel completely crap, but you'll regret having missed it, later, if you don't go.

* [at the risk of sounding horrbly (but unintentionally) patronising] i think you should consider talking to some kind of counsellor/therapist-type person.

I've already made my contributions to the gene pool, so it really doesn't matter whether I'm attractive or get approached. I picked "other."

Good answer (me too) Guys are strange. Some will spot my wedding ring and keep on going...others will keep on talking to me --knowing they won't be 'picking' me up, which is cool for everyone =o) Hey, just cuz I'm married doesn’t mean we can't have a beer and a conversation.

I'm plain as a pikestaff; always have been, always will be. When I was young, it made me miserable. But I'm now happier and better loved than many of the good looking people I know.

Obviously I don't know you from Adam, but from the way that you come across in the threads, I think that you & Stig (if I remembered his name right), not to mention hatfull and HIM, are the role models for happy couples. And that MySpace pic doesn't look plain, but then again, lying supine is rarely an unflattering pose.

I'm sure whatever naughty bits there might be are too small to be seen anyway, so post 'em up!

So you're not entirely humor impaired, after all!

Good answer (me too) Guys are strange. Some will spot my wedding ring and keep on going...others will keep on talking to me --knowing they won't be 'picking' me up, which is cool for everyone =o) Hey, just cuz I'm married doesn’t mean we can't have a beer and a conversation.

Yeah, it does, but the fact someone is living and breathing is even more reason not to chat them up. Did I mention that I'm a bit anti-social?

Bottom line, if you're NEVER, EVER approached (for a date) then, it's obvious that something is WRONG w/you.

That's what's happening to me.

Bottom line, if you're NEVER, EVER approached (for a date) then, it's obvious that something is WRONG w/you.

That's what's happening to me.

OK, you've said this at least three times so far. Are you looking for advice? Horror stories? Commiseration? For us to tell you that there is definitely something wrong with you?

Have you ever approached anyone yourself? If so, what was it about that person that made you do so? Physical attractiveness? Personality? Confidence? Massive bulge? If not, why not?

EDIT: I just read that you're going to several upcoming shows. Why not make a goal for yourself to start talking to random strangers at these shows to see what happens?

Did I mention that I'm a bit anti-social?

Ok, I will smile, wave and send a drink over to your table ;)

I am very attractive (not trying to sound stuck up) but I really only get hit on by older men.

Bottom line, if you're NEVER, EVER approached (for a date) then, it's obvious that something is WRONG w/you.

That's what's happening to me.

waaaah waaaaaaah waaaahhhh. your whineyness is probably more unattractive than your physical appearance.

I am very attractive (not trying to sound stuck up) but I really only get hit on by older men.

That's hot and I'm jealous. Sorry I have a thing for older men so I can't help but wish I was you in a way :p

That's hot and I'm jealous. Sorry I have a thing for older men so I can't help but wish I was you in a way :p

I get hit on by black guys alot. I think it's cuz I have a badonkadonk.

That's hot and I'm jealous. Sorry I have a thing for older men so I can't help but wish I was you in a way :p

I do too! But I have a boyfriend.

I do too! But I have a boyfriend.

Me too. Haha! We may be taken, but we're not dead ;)

I get hit on by black guys alot. I think it's cuz I have a badonkadonk.

I just wanted to note that you certainly do NOT have a said "badonkadonk" as you say. That is just simply not correct.

I just wanted to note that you certainly do NOT have a said "badonkadonk" as you say. That is just simply not correct.

HAHAHA. well i think so! i mean, for a white girl!

Obviously I don't know you from Adam, but from the way that you come across in the threads, I think that you & Stig (if I remembered his name right), not to mention hatfull and HIM, are the role models for happy couples. And that MySpace pic doesn't look plain, but then again, lying supine is rarely an unflattering pose.


I wasn't supine. I was hanging by my knees from the chandelier. And naked. Thank heavens for the "crop" function on Photohouse.....

hahaha, i dunno. i dont want him to get mad and kill me.
please please please???

well he does have a temper. he freaked out on me once for no reason and told me to kiss his ass.
Oh my GOD! It is THAT GUY!

Good answer (me too) Guys are strange. Some will spot my wedding ring and keep on going...others will keep on talking to me --knowing they won't be 'picking' me up, which is cool for everyone =o) Hey, just cuz I'm married doesn’t mean we can't have a beer and a conversation.
You're gorgeous and I agree with you wholeheartedly.
Bottom line, if you're NEVER, EVER approached (for a date) then, it's obvious that something is WRONG w/you.
Unless you seriously look like mr. peppers there, you can find someone. its all about personality. if you sleep all day and play video games at night, roleplay alone as a vampire, and snap at people? you're probably going to have a hard time finding someone.
I am very attractive (not trying to sound stuck up) but I really only get hit on by older men.
THey're trying to live out a fantasy. I am glad you have a boyfriend.
I get hit on by black guys alot. I think it's cuz I have a badonkadonk.
I get hit on a lot by black guys too, but I think its because I live in Baltimore and white boys are hard to find ;)
HAHAHA. well i think so! i mean, for a white girl!

you have enough ass to get their attention but not too much!:D

OK, you've said this at least three times so far. Are you looking for advice? Horror stories? Commiseration? For us to tell you that there is definitely something wrong with you?

Have you ever approached anyone yourself? If so, what was it about that person that made you do so? Physical attractiveness? Personality? Confidence? Massive bulge? If not, why not?

EDIT: I just read that you're going to several upcoming shows. Why not make a goal for yourself to start talking to random strangers at these shows to see what happens?


A couple of thoughts regarding your thoughts:

1) I do go out, but, only w/ my friends. I never go alone, unless it's to run errands.

2) People HAVE seen my photo here from the past & they've tormented me numerous times, Ask Laura, GU, Grim, Maria, Walkers, and the other old timers.

3) He** no, would I ever approach men b/c a: I've done it before only to be ditched & scowled & laughed at, b: I am old-fashioned & believe in true chilvary, c: If someone is THAT interested, they would ask, bottom line and d: for a woman to do that, makes her look desperate.

4) I've done all of the dating sites, went to sporting events, got college degrees (met men in there) & done other things....plus, I've let it all just go and wait for him to appear (the opposite end of the spectrum). I am SO tired of people thinking there is someone for everyone b/c I'm growing & living proof that there is not.

A couple of thoughts regarding your thoughts:

1) I do go out, but, only w/ my friends. I never go alone, unless it's to run errands.

2) People HAVE seen my photo here from the past & they've tormented me numerous times, Ask Laura, GU, Grim, Maria, Walkers, and the other old timers.

3) He** no, would I ever approach men b/c a: I've done it before only to be ditched & scowled & laughed at, b: I am old-fashioned & believe in true chilvary, c: If someone is THAT interested, they would ask, bottom line and d: for a woman to do that, makes her look desperate.

4) I've done all of the dating sites, went to sporting events, got college degrees (met men in there) & done other things....plus, I've let it all just go and wait for him to appear (the opposite end of the spectrum). I am SO tired of people thinking there is someone for everyone b/c I'm growing & living proof that there is not.

OK, you win. I can see where you're coming from.

A couple of thoughts regarding your thoughts:

1) I do go out, but, only w/ my friends. I never go alone, unless it's to run errands.

2) People HAVE seen my photo here from the past & they've tormented me numerous times, Ask Laura, GU, Grim, Maria, Walkers, and the other old timers.

3) He** no, would I ever approach men b/c a: I've done it before only to be ditched & scowled & laughed at, b: I am old-fashioned & believe in true chilvary, c: If someone is THAT interested, they would ask, bottom line and d: for a woman to do that, makes her look desperate.

4) I've done all of the dating sites, went to sporting events, got college degrees (met men in there) & done other things....plus, I've let it all just go and wait for him to appear (the opposite end of the spectrum). I am SO tired of people thinking there is someone for everyone b/c I'm growing & living proof that there is not.

Maybe you should become a lesbian. Seriously.

THey're trying to live out a fantasy. I am glad you have a boyfriend.


Yeah, like those pornos.

Maybe you should become a lesbian. Seriously.

Why would any of the things she's claiming to be be any more attractive to a lesbian?

Yeah, like those pornos.

Hmm. Which pornos were those, again? Just for research purposes, of course. :p

Why would any of the things she's claiming to be be any more attractive to a lesbian?

She claims to have several problems with men, so why not try ladies?

Oh, wait, I see what you're saying.

Hmm. Which pornos were those, again? Just for research purposes, of course. :p

Those May-December ones. ;)

Uh, no thanks.
I like men, always have & always will. Even if they don't like me. ha.

As for the approachability factor, I rest my case....

Uh, no thanks.
I like men, always have & always will. Even if they don't like me. ha.

As for the approachability factor, I rest my case....

Do you have any platonic friendships with men? If you're desperate to breed, you could always make a business arrangement.

Those May-December ones. ;)

Oh, those...

how about blind dudes?

[QUOTE=Not Right in the Head;698246]Do you have any platonic friendships with men? If you're desperate to breed, you could always make a business arrangement.


You're too funny. Quite frankly, where I work, is mostly all men... so, imagine that. (some are even single too)

Here's a question I heard before & it relates to this though, "How much for a ______ __________?" You fill-in the blank.


I DARE SOMEONE (besides Amy, cuz we've seen hers and she's lovely) to post their photo here (yes, I know about the Member's Pics thread but, this is indirectly related) and tell someone outright that they aren't attractive. I'd go first BUT, I'm at work and I don't have a photo of myself here for you all to critique.

I am sorry but, it can't be solved, if you're unattractive, people don't want you and you're unapproachable.....

I have the ability to be unattractive!!

Me + july in florida + long day at the zoo = sexxxy

http://a14.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/98/m_9138b6473b589ab64805d75a84430ca5.jpg

You're too funny. Quite frankly, where I work, is mostly all men... so, imagine that. (some are even single too)

If only I were trying to be funny.

Here's a question I heard before & it relates to this though, "How much for a ______ __________?" You fill-in the blank.

"fluid exchange"?
"mercy shag"?
"snake polish"?

I DARE SOMEONE (besides Amy, cuz we've seen hers and she's lovely) to post their photo here (yes, I know about the Member's Pics thread but, this is indirectly related) and tell someone outright that they aren't attractive. I'd go first BUT, I'm at work and I don't have a photo of myself here for you all to critique.

Then post one when you get home. If the thread goes mysteriously silent, then it'll validate your fears.

I am sorry but, it can't be solved, if you're unattractive, people don't want you and you're unapproachable.....

IT'S NOT JUST ABOUT PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS! Jesus christ. Attractiveness sure doesn't hurt, but a woman's looks aren't what will convince a man to wake up next to her every day for the next umpteen million years--it's her attitude, brains, and uh, other things.

As for it not being solved, ugly people have managed to breed & thrive for millions of years. Even in the UK. :D

I have the ability to be unattractive!!

Me + july in florida + long day at the zoo = sexxxy

:eek:

Gah! Are you eating a pork cone?

sorbet. i hate ice cream. and apparently myself, for posting such a hideous pic. but it is on my myspace. its not like i'm hiding bad face days!

sorbet. i hate ice cream. and apparently myself, for posting such a hideous pic. but it is on my myspace. its not like i'm hiding bad face days!

See, Mozzy1, can you top boggy's pic? Maybe what Mozzy1 needs is to lose her sense of dignity. :p

See, Mozzy1, can you top boggy's pic? Maybe what Mozzy1 needs is to lose her sense of dignity. :p

yes, dignity is totally overrated.
excuse me, where is everyone else's ugly pics?? i know you all have at least one.

yes, dignity is totally overrated.
excuse me, where is everyone else's ugly pics?? i know you all have at least one.

I posted mine last night in the Morrissey hair thread.

I DARE SOMEONE (besides Amy, cuz we've seen hers and she's lovely) to post their photo here (yes, I know about the Member's Pics thread but, this is indirectly related) and tell someone outright that they aren't attractive. I'd go first BUT, I'm at work and I don't have a photo of myself here for you all to critique.


What would that achieve?

I am sorry but, it can't be solved, if you're unattractive, people don't want you and you're unapproachable.....

With an outlook like that, it is no suprise you are alone. There's plenty of people in the world, and they don't all look like Narcissus.

i think its funny only 2 people voted "yes i'm alright and yes i get asked out" and one of them is me. surely people are being overly modest.

i think its funny only 2 people voted "yes i'm alright and yes i get asked out" and one of them is me. surely people are being overly modest.

Pfff, how do you think I feel? I picked the first option.

I have never been approached :eek: ;)

I tend to attract and find myself attracted to people who put on major false fronts.

yes, dignity is totally overrated.
excuse me, where is everyone else's ugly pics?? i know you all have at least one.

haha you posted mine a long time ago in the "nugz was framed" thread! haha!

I tend to attract and find myself attracted to people who put on major false fronts.

I used too have a lot of people like that in my life, but now I trust no one.

I used too have a lot of people like that in my life, but now I trust no one.

Yeah, I don't trust most people in my life either, but I still consider myself lucky to know a few very trustworthy ones.

Oh, and by the way, I usually don't dwell on my looks, but to my family I'm "handsome", and to women I'm "cute... like a little gay elf". But I don't worry nowadays, I know atleast one person who finds me attractive. :p

well you are hardly quasimodo. i really believe people are usually able to see past superficial things like how attractive a person is on the outside. If you really believe you must improve your looks, then all you'd have to do is lose some weight and probably get a trendy short haircut. I lost 60 pounds so I'm not just some always-thin-my-whole-life person gabbing away at the mouth. also if yu go to the gym you'll probably meet more people too, and if you get involved in sports, again, more people you can share interests with. i have met many cool people since i run now, and if i was single i could def have some new love interests if i wanted them.
www.sparkpeople.com is a great site to learn how to get fit and theres lots of forums for people to help you along your way. and worst case scenario? you're happier and healthier and have more self confidence, whether you land a man or not.

^^^ yeah basically what she said. brush your hair and put on makeup. it'll do wonders, really.

yes, dignity is totally overrated.
excuse me, where is everyone else's ugly pics?? i know you all have at least one.

Finally! I never thought anyone would ask :(:D

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g31/zvon-chica/AGNES/class.jpg

Finally! I never thought anyone would ask :(:D

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g31/zvon-chica/AGNES/class.jpg

Hi, I'm chica, and I'm a Mozaholic.

More like 'hi, I'm chica, and now you know why I'll never graduate' :p

Like I stated, all of you that posted already (here or elsewhere) your photos are a helluva lot attractive.

He** though, I'm really too old to care now, as it's over.

Likewise, my hair was brushed. LOL I have it styled even more now.

Anyway, I'll die in the end believing what I do believe, sorry but, it's true, if you have a thin, nice body, great/cute/attractive face, nice hair, etc....then, you'll definately be approached.

You can change yourself forever (as I have in many, many ways that no-one here knows about) but, if you're still not that athetically pleasing, it's just not going to happen.

You can try all options and venues for meeting someone, exhausting all provided opportunities.

You can also do the opposite too, and wait patiently, pray about it or just live life waiting for that one person to walk into it. BUT, if you're not athetically pleasing (as myself) say it, it's just not meant nor going to happen. Sorry for sounding unconfident and negative but, I'm seriously being realistic.

I showed my photo (& deleted it) but, that's my basic point. Thank you.

Finally! I never thought anyone would ask :(:D

http://i52.photobucket.com/albums/g31/zvon-chica/AGNES/class.jpg

Shit, chica, if everyone else in that pic looked so much worse than you that you had to blank out their faces, then I shudder for the gene pool in your part of the world! :D

I showed my photo (& deleted it) but, that's my basic point. Thank you.

Damn! I stepped away for an hour, and missed it!

I selected no, however i seem to somehow get woman and even the odd man approaching me in badly lit bars or nightclubs!

I'm sorry, but I'm gonna venture to guess you are young and just havent had enough life experience yet? I dont care how goddamn pretty you are, doesnt mean your life is gonna be easy. thats so irrelevant.

How old are you again?

Shit, chica, if everyone else in that pic looked so much worse than you that you had to blank out their faces, then I shudder for the gene pool in your part of the world! :D


They look so much better than me, duh! Hasn't your mother told you never to have pictures of you taken standing next to someone better looking? :p

How old are you again?

Profilez, dude. Read 'em.

A couple of thoughts regarding your thoughts:

1) I do go out, but, only w/ my friends. I never go alone, unless it's to run errands.

2) People HAVE seen my photo here from the past & they've tormented me numerous times, Ask Laura, GU, Grim, Maria, Walkers, and the other old timers.

3) He** no, would I ever approach men b/c a: I've done it before only to be ditched & scowled & laughed at, b: I am old-fashioned & believe in true chilvary, c: If someone is THAT interested, they would ask, bottom line and d: for a woman to do that, makes her look desperate.

4) I've done all of the dating sites, went to sporting events, got college degrees (met men in there) & done other things....plus, I've let it all just go and wait for him to appear (the opposite end of the spectrum). I am SO tired of people thinking there is someone for everyone b/c I'm growing & living proof that there is not.

Sometimes you can look to hard for these things and they will end up driving you mad. Go out have fun and don;t think about it too much, maybe a change of mindset is in order?

Look at it this way, at least you have the ability to love therefore you can be loved. I have'nt even found this yet! How i struggle...

How old are you again?

25, why?

the poster sounds like she has the mentally of a 16 year old.

I guess I'd say I'm the shiznit! :D
Actually, I'd say I'm alright looking...but don't get asked out too often. It's got more to do with my coming across as rude because I'm usually a little quiet until I get to know ya. Then again, it could just be because I'm fugly. :rolleyes:

Eric I can say it cause I met you - you are not fugly. Good looking guy, and not overly shy either. Maybe people just get asked out a lot more on television and movies than they do in real life - so we are all sitting around thinking we are abnormal... (which by the way I actually am on this front perhaps because of my being PATHETIC - but I am not going to get into that part.)

You are not fugly and you are fun to be around and talk to... just to let you know.

25, why?

the poster sounds like she has the mentally of a 16 year old.

Just wondering for 10 seconds or so. Your a year older than me so any advice would be more than welcome

I feel sympathy and can identify with Mozzy1 she obviously has a low self esteem so i think it is a bit harsh/easy to start attacking her

Just wondering for 10 seconds or so. Your a year older than me so any advice would be more than welcome

I feel sympathy and can identify with Mozzy1 she obviously has a low self esteem so i think it is a bit harsh/easy to start attacking her

well the thing about "Mozzy1" is that she is actually a regular poster on solo. she comes here every couple months or so under different s/ns and makes the same kinds of threads and whines and feels sorry for herself. everyone has given her advice time and time again but it goes in one ear and out the other. thats why if some of us come off sounding harsh its b/c we've heard it all before. i know when she reads this she'll deny its her, but those of us who have been here long enough know whats going on.

back to my original post, i think anyone with a level head can tell you that being pretty does not equal an easy life. sure, there are some perks. you might land a job, or get asked out on a few more dates, but in the long run, it probably wont make much of a difference. lots of happy ugly people out there, and lots of sad pretty people.

Ok well i must say i never noticed

Maybe being 'ugly' is also down to more than just genetics. Maybe if you are unhappy you let yourself go.

When ever i go for a run or excercise i always feel a little bit less negative about life.

Ok well i must say i never noticed

Maybe being 'ugly' is also down to more than just genetics. Maybe if you are unhappy you let yourself go.

When ever i go for a run or excercise i always feel a little bit less negative about life.

theres some truth to that I'm sure. they say if you look better you feel better, and I bet its true the other way around as well.

theres some truth to that I'm sure. they say if you look better you feel better, and I bet its true the other way around as well.

Thats true...e

After all if you look Mahvelous then you feel mahvelous.

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Thats true...e

After all if you look Mahvelous then you feel mahvelous.

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that's Sting looking for his last name in the dip?! HA

Its funny how people struggle to find love and then when they find it they find that it does;nt fulfill them and that they were'nt looking for love in the first place.

Maybe more sick than funny

I'm sorry, but I'm gonna venture to guess you are young and just havent had enough life experience yet? I dont care how goddamn pretty you are, doesnt mean your life is gonna be easy. thats so irrelevant.

How old are you again?

Age and life experience are two different things. Obviously, good old Nugzy is mature enough to realize that being attractive isn't necessarily gonna make your life easy. Good looking, awakward and plain or just downright funny looking...if you don't know how to deal with life on life's terms and have the ability to accept yourself, chances are you are going to be miserable.

Eric I can say it cause I met you - you are not fugly. Good looking guy, and not overly shy either. Maybe people just get asked out a lot more on television and movies than they do in real life - so we are all sitting around thinking we are abnormal... (which by the way I actually am on this front perhaps because of my being PATHETIC - but I am not going to get into that part.)

You are not fugly and you are fun to be around and talk to... just to let you know.

:o:) Suparni...you're making me blush. LOLZ Seriously though, thanks...you're pretty fun to be around yourself. ;)

Like I stated, all of you that posted already (here or elsewhere) your photos are a helluva lot attractive.

He** though, I'm really too old to care now, as it's over.

Likewise, my hair was brushed. LOL I have it styled even more now.

Anyway, I'll die in the end believing what I do believe, sorry but, it's true, if you have a thin, nice body, great/cute/attractive face, nice hair, etc....then, you'll definately be approached.

You can change yourself forever (as I have in many, many ways that no-one here knows about) but, if you're still not that athetically pleasing, it's just not going to happen.

You can try all options and venues for meeting someone, exhausting all provided opportunities.

You can also do the opposite too, and wait patiently, pray about it or just live life waiting for that one person to walk into it. BUT, if you're not athetically pleasing (as myself) say it, it's just not meant nor going to happen. Sorry for sounding unconfident and negative but, I'm seriously being realistic.

I showed my photo (& deleted it) but, that's my basic point. Thank you.

I think you should start a dating agency with some fellow solo users here, namely punky bunnymen bunnyfan, MozArt, Cemetry Gates & stormynights (i think thats what they were called) I think you all get on really well together. Even if you don't get some action you can all have a girly night out...it be banging!!!!

I think you should start a dating agency with some fellow solo users here, namely punky bunnymen bunnyfan, MozArt, Cemetry Gates & stormynights (i think thats what they were called) I think you all get on really well together. Even if you don't get some action you can all have a girly night out...it be banging!!!!

Can I just simply ask what this has to do w/ anything? Big freakin' deal I had other aliases before. People change as life does.

You have always made mention of this before & I don't see what the deal is. Who cares? Just like this thread.

Maybe someday (a great Cure song, btw) someone will agree w/ me that when it comes first to approachability, unless you're attractive somewhat, someone will ask you out. I'm not attractive therefore, that's why I'm not asked out. Period.

You should start a band, you could sing.
Singers are always wanted, even the guy from Keane!
It's something I've never really understood but it works. Maybe it's because, as others said, it's not only if you're phisically attractive, there's something else.

the guy from Keane!


that man's face has no edges.

Maybe someday (a great Cure song, btw) someone will agree w/ me that when it comes first to approachability, unless you're attractive somewhat, [no-one] will ask you out. I'm not attractive therefore, that's why I'm not asked out. Period.

it might have, at least, as much to do with your inextinguishable negativity and steadfast determination to be unhappy.

Can I just simply ask what this has to do w/ anything? Big freakin' deal I had other aliases before. People change as life does. .

but you don't change, you just prattle on in your self bloody pity.



You have always made mention of this before & I don't see what the deal is. Who cares? Just like this thread..


it's just the same question again and again *yawn*. your never happy with what you've read...you ask your username to be deleted. i remember a long winded 'goodbye' from you when you was 'stormynight', then you came back about a month later!


Maybe someday (a great Cure song, btw) someone will agree w/ me that when it comes first to approachability, unless you're attractive somewhat, someone will ask you out. .

So when someone offers you advice (i have read some great advice for you), liked you ask or a opinion about what you should do in your 'quest' for romance, you ignore it!

so you just want someone to agree with you, so the endless boring Polls and usernames asking the same questions are pointless. If you've made up your mind, why do it again?

I'm not attractive therefore, that's why I'm not asked out. Period.

your morose, self pitying, self-absorbed attitude makes you unattractive. Period.

A couple of thoughts regarding your thoughts:

1) I do go out, but, only w/ my friends. I never go alone, unless it's to run errands.

2)People HAVE seen my photo here from the past & they've tormented me numerous times, Ask Laura, GU, Grim, Maria, Walkers, and the other old timers.

3) He** no, would I ever approach men b/c a: I've done it before only to be ditched & scowled & laughed at, b: I am old-fashioned & believe in true chilvary, c: If someone is THAT interested, they would ask, bottom line and d: for a woman to do that, makes her look desperate.

4) I've done all of the dating sites, went to sporting events, got college degrees (met men in there) & done other things....plus, I've let it all just go and wait for him to appear (the opposite end of the spectrum). I am SO tired of people thinking there is someone for everyone b/c I'm growing & living proof that there is not.

Can I just simply ask what this has to do w/ anything? Big freakin' deal I had other aliases before. People change as life does.

You have always made mention of this before & I don't see what the deal is. Who cares? Just like this thread.

Maybe someday (a great Cure song, btw) someone will agree w/ me that when it comes first to approachability, unless you're attractive somewhat, someone will ask you out. I'm not attractive therefore, that's why I'm not asked out. Period.


:confused:

Hey, that's the game of the Internet.... believe what you want about people yet, not really knowing them at all...

That's probably for the best though, some people aren't meant to be "really known intimately". Oh well. Goes back to approachability too (the main issue at hand w/ this thread).

It's funny how people can think they know someone yet, never really even met them or known them personally, to formally judge. What's cool though is knowing that maybe, those people weren't even meant to know each other b/c that's just destiny too....

Hey, that's the game of the Internet.... believe what you want about people yet, not really knowing them at all.......

you see you don't like what is said to you, you go on the defence...no body said they know you or want to know you. just had an opinion on a thread you've created (about 10 times before).


That's probably for the best though, some people aren't meant to be "really known intimately". Oh well. Goes back to approachability too (the main issue at hand w/ this thread).

yes BOO HOO


It's funny how people can think they know someone yet, never really even met them or known them personally, to formally judge. What's cool though is knowing that maybe, those people weren't even meant to know each other b/c that's just destiny too....

blah blah blah....get a grip women. stop looking on the internet then. christ on bike do you ever get bored hearing your own crap!

Age and life experience are two different things. Obviously, good old Nugzy is mature enough to realize that being attractive isn't necessarily gonna make your life easy. Good looking, awakward and plain or just downright funny looking...if you don't know how to deal with life on life's terms and have the ability to accept yourself, chances are you are going to be miserable.

sorry but i don;t believe my comment said anything about age and life experience. i think you jumped the gun a tiny bit.

Anyway as i said i am a year younger than nugz and i have more life experience than her:p

Maybe someday (a great Cure song, btw) someone will agree w/ me that when it comes first to approachability, unless you're attractive somewhat, someone will ask you out. I'm not attractive therefore, that's why I'm not asked out. Period.

That's probably for the best though, some people aren't meant to be "really known intimately". Oh well. Goes back to approachability too (the main issue at hand w/ this thread).

It's funny how people can think they know someone yet, never really even met them or known them personally, to formally judge. What's cool though is knowing that maybe, those people weren't even meant to know each other b/c that's just destiny too....

Good grief. And some people say that Morrissey is depressing. http://www.kchristieh.com/blog/images/icon_cry.gif

Good grief. And some people say that Morrissey is depressing. http://www.kchristieh.com/blog/images/icon_cry.gif

there is a pirate radio station playing regga....your stewie signature works well with it!

Anyway as i said i am a year younger than nugz and i have more life experience than her:p

I was just searching for a 'go pat yourself on the back' emoticon to respond to your post, but while looking this popped up and me thinks it works just as well. I am now ROTFLMFAO! :p
http://data1.blog.de/blog/w/wulfweard/img/smellslikebs_small.jpg

there is a pirate radio station playing regga....your stewie signature works well with it!

HAHAHA! That's great! I think he can get down to almost any type of music...maybe not country. :confused: That mofo's got moves...I'll give him that. Wish I was that smooth...when I dance it looks like I'm having a seizure. :D

Wish I was that smooth...when I dance it looks like I'm having a seizure. :D

Well, so did Ian, and he just had a movie made about him. Of course, he didn't hang around long enough to see it for himself.

Well, so did Ian, and he just had a movie made about him. Of course, he didn't hang around long enough to see it for himself.

Good point.
Of course, this guy also is noted for his unique yet impressive dance moves:
http://s46.photobucket.com/albums/f106/Krillz4Millz/th_NapoleonDance.gif

Anyway as i said i am a year younger than nugz and i have more life experience than her:p

And you know this how? Do you know nugz personally? Have you sat and compared life experiences whilst listening to Dido and watching Lifetime movies?

And you know this how? Do you know nugz personally? Have you sat and compared life experiences whilst listening to Dido and watching Lifetime movies?

What's up with all the 'Mercans here starting to say "whilst"? If you ever catch me saying it, please shoot me. :confused: :D

What's up with all the 'Mercans here starting to say "whilst"? If you ever catch me saying it, please shoot me. :confused: :D

BANG! :p

Anyway as i said i am a year younger than nugz and i have more life experience than her:p

yeah, as Cassius asked. how do you know this?

BANG! :p

THAT ONE DOESN'T COUNT! :mad: :D

yeah, as Cassius asked. how do you know this?

May be 'please' read Adam's post, saying you didn't know how to use the subway map or something:confused:


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things to do before you die. . .
How many have you achieved? :p

Attend at least one major sporting event: the Super Bowl, the Olympics, the U.S. Open.

Throw a huge party and invite every one of your friends.

Swim with a dolphin.

Skydive.

Have your portrait painted.

Learn to speak a foreign language and make sure you use it.

Go skinny-dipping at midnight in the South of France.

Watch the launch of the space shuttle.

Spend a whole day eating junk food without feeling guilty.

Be an extra in a film.

Tell someone the story of your life, sparing no details.

Make love on a forest floor.

Make love on a train.

Learn to rollerblade.

Own a room with a view.

Brew your own beer.

Learn how to take a compliment.

Buy a round-the-world air ticket and a rucksack, and run away.

Grow a beard and leave it for at least a month.

Give your mother a dozen red roses and tell her you love her.

Be a member of the audience in a TV show.

Put your name down to be a passenger on the first tourist shuttle to the moon.

Send a message in a bottle.

Ride a camel into the desert.

Get to know your neighbors.

Plant a tree.

Learn not to say yes when you really mean no.

Write a fan letter to your all-time favorite hero or heroine.

Visit the Senate and the House of Representatives to see how Congress really works.

Learn to ballroom dance properly.

Eat jellied eels from a stall in London.

Be the boss.

Fall deeply in love -- helplessly and unconditionally.

Ride the Trans-Siberian Express across Asia.

Sit on a jury.

Write the novel you know you have inside you.

Go to Walden Pond and read Thoreau while drifting in a canoe.

Stay out all night dancing and go to work the next day without having gone home (just once).

Drink beer at Oktoberfest in Munich.

Be someone's mentor.

Shower in a waterfall.

Ask for a raise.

Learn to play a musical instrument with some degree of skill.

Teach someone illiterate to read.

Be one of the first to take a flight on the new Airbus A380.

Spend a night in a haunted house -- by yourself.

Write down your personal mission statement, follow it, and revise it from time to time.

See a lunar eclipse.

Spend New Year's in an exotic location.

Get passionate about a cause and spend time helping it, instead of just thinking about it.

Experience weightlessness.

Sing a great song in front of an audience.

Ask someone you've only just met to go on a date.

Drive across America from coast to coast.

Make a complete and utter fool of yourself.

Own one very expensive but absolutely wonderful business suit.

Write your will.

Sleep under the stars.

Take a ride on the highest roller coaster in the country.

Learn how to complain effectively -- and do it!

Go wild in Rio during Carnival.

Spend a whole day reading a great novel.

Forgive your parents.

Learn to juggle with three balls.

Drive the Autobahn.

Find a job you love.

Spend Christmas on the beach drinking pina coladas.

Overcome your fear of failure.

Raft through the Grand Canyon.

Donate money and put your name on something: a college scholarship, a bench in the park.

Buy your own house and then spend time making it into exactly what you want.

Grow a garden.

Spend three months getting your body into optimum shape.

Drive a convertible with the top down and music blaring.

Accept yourself for who you are.

Learn to use a microphone and give a speech in public.

Scuba dive off Australia's Great Barrier Reef.

Go up in a hot-air balloon.

Attend one really huge rock concert.

Kiss someone you've just met on a blind date.

Be able to handle: your tax forms, Jehovah's Witnesses, your banker, telephone solicitors.

Give to a charity -- anonymously.

Lose more money than you can afford at roulette in Vegas.

Let someone feed you peeled, seedless grapes.

Kiss the Blarney stone and develop the gift of gab.

Fart in a crowded space.

Make love on the kitchen floor.

Go deep sea fishing and eat your catch.

Create your own web site.

Visit the Holy Land.

Make yourself spend a half-day at a concentration camp and swear never to forget.

Run to the top of the Statue of Liberty.

Create your Family Tree.

Catch a ball in the stands of a major league baseball stadium.

Make a hole-in-one.

Ski a double-black diamond run.

Learn to bartend.

Run a marathon.

Look into your child's eyes, see yourself, and smile.

Reflect on your greatest weakness, and realize how it is your greatest strength.

things to do before you die. . .
How many have you achieved? :p

Attend at least one major sporting event: the Super Bowl, the Olympics, the U.S. Open.

Throw a huge party and invite every one of your friends.

Swim with a dolphin.

Skydive.

Have your portrait painted.

Learn to speak a foreign language and make sure you use it.

Go skinny-dipping at midnight in the South of France.

Watch the launch of the space shuttle.

Spend a whole day eating junk food without feeling guilty.

Be an extra in a film.

Tell someone the story of your life, sparing no details.

Make love on a forest floor.

Make love on a train.

Learn to rollerblade.

Own a room with a view.

Brew your own beer.

Learn how to take a compliment.

Buy a round-the-world air ticket and a rucksack, and run away.

Grow a beard and leave it for at least a month.

Give your mother a dozen red roses and tell her you love her.

Be a member of the audience in a TV show.

Put your name down to be a passenger on the first tourist shuttle to the moon.

Send a message in a bottle.

Ride a camel into the desert.

Get to know your neighbors.

Plant a tree.

Learn not to say yes when you really mean no.

Write a fan letter to your all-time favorite hero or heroine.

Visit the Senate and the House of Representatives to see how Congress really works.

Learn to ballroom dance properly.

Eat jellied eels from a stall in London.

Be the boss.

Fall deeply in love -- helplessly and unconditionally.

Ride the Trans-Siberian Express across Asia.

Sit on a jury.

Write the novel you know you have inside you.

Go to Walden Pond and read Thoreau while drifting in a canoe.

Stay out all night dancing and go to work the next day without having gone home (just once).

Drink beer at Oktoberfest in Munich.

Be someone's mentor.

Shower in a waterfall.

Ask for a raise.

Learn to play a musical instrument with some degree of skill.

Teach someone illiterate to read.

Be one of the first to take a flight on the new Airbus A380.

Spend a night in a haunted house -- by yourself.

Write down your personal mission statement, follow it, and revise it from time to time.

See a lunar eclipse.

Spend New Year's in an exotic location.

Get passionate about a cause and spend time helping it, instead of just thinking about it.

Experience weightlessness.

Sing a great song in front of an audience.

Ask someone you've only just met to go on a date.

Drive across America from coast to coast.

Make a complete and utter fool of yourself.

Own one very expensive but absolutely wonderful business suit.

Write your will.

Sleep under the stars.

Take a ride on the highest roller coaster in the country.

Learn how to complain effectively -- and do it!

Go wild in Rio during Carnival.

Spend a whole day reading a great novel.

Forgive your parents.

Learn to juggle with three balls.

Drive the Autobahn.

Find a job you love.

Spend Christmas on the beach drinking pina coladas.

Overcome your fear of failure.

Raft through the Grand Canyon.

Donate money and put your name on something: a college scholarship, a bench in the park.

Buy your own house and then spend time making it into exactly what you want.

Grow a garden.

Spend three months getting your body into optimum shape.

Drive a convertible with the top down and music blaring.

Accept yourself for who you are.

Learn to use a microphone and give a speech in public.

Scuba dive off Australia's Great Barrier Reef.

Go up in a hot-air balloon.

Attend one really huge rock concert.

Kiss someone you've just met on a blind date.

Be able to handle: your tax forms, Jehovah's Witnesses, your banker, telephone solicitors.

Give to a charity -- anonymously.

Lose more money than you can afford at roulette in Vegas.

Let someone feed you peeled, seedless grapes.

Kiss the Blarney stone and develop the gift of gab.

Fart in a crowded space.

Make love on the kitchen floor.

Go deep sea fishing and eat your catch.

Create your own web site.

Visit the Holy Land.

Make yourself spend a half-day at a concentration camp and swear never to forget.

Run to the top of the Statue of Liberty.

Create your Family Tree.

Catch a ball in the stands of a major league baseball stadium.

Make a hole-in-one.

Ski a double-black diamond run.

Learn to bartend.

Run a marathon.

Look into your child's eyes, see yourself, and smile.

Reflect on your greatest weakness, and realize how it is your greatest strength.

i've done some of those and i'm quite pleased about it.

i've done some of those and i'm quite pleased about it.

The 'Fart in a crowded space' i do most days.

Ha, some of those things to do before you die are also equated w/ approachability. If you're not, then, how will it happen?

And you know this how? Do you know nugz personally? Have you sat and compared life experiences whilst listening to Dido and watching Lifetime movies?

I won;t answer your question, i'll just point you in the direction of the stupid emotion face thing, that i put at the end of that sentence. it looked very much like this: :p. Maybe when you have a bit more life experience you will understand:p


whoopsi

I won;t answer your question, i'll just point you in the direction of the stupid emotion face thing, that i put at the end of that sentence. it looked very much like this: :p. Maybe when you have a bit more life experience you will understand:p


whoopsi

Wow...I'm floored. I mean, you really kicked up the intelligence factor in this recent post.
It reminds me of a kid having temper tantrums. Eh, to each his own...but if it helps you to understand where I'm coming from: :D
nyah-nyah nyah-nyah nyah
http://www.lizzysplace.com/cow-tongue.jpg

You might consider approaching people instead of waiting for them to approach you.

this is my problem.

THIS IS FOR Mozzy1

I've been told hundreds of times that when you start appreciating yourself other people also will.
Or: how can you expect to appreciated if you don't appreciate yourself?

It's true indeed. I remember seeing a guy when I used to take a certain bus years ago. He was rather geeky, plump etc. One day, however (maybe it wasn't so sudden) I saw he had better clothes and a better haircut but, mostly, he looked self-confident.

Don't care what the others think, try to be happy with yourself, someone will notice it and he maybe he'll fall in love with you.
Another thing. Charm has not much to do with beauty. If you're charming everything else will have no importance.

Wow...I'm floored. I mean, you really kicked up the intelligence factor in this recent post.
It reminds me of a kid having temper tantrums. Eh, to each his own...but if it helps you to understand where I'm coming from: :D
nyah-nyah nyah-nyah nyah
http://www.lizzysplace.com/cow-tongue.jpg

well with your displays of intellect...

anyway, yet again - you really are missing the point, my post did'nt require any intellect. I am sure everything is low lighting and high-art in your world, but some of us leas mundane boring lives.

hahahahahha

Ha, some of those things to do before you die are also equated w/ approachability. If you're not, then, how will it happen?

Theres being negative and theres being negative, your being negative for negatives sake

It's true indeed. I remember seeing a guy when I used to take a certain bus years ago. He was rather geeky, plump etc. One day, however (maybe it wasn't so sudden) I saw he had better clothes and a better haircut but, mostly, he looked self-confident.

Yeah, but did you, or anyone else, approach him because of it?

Yeah, but did you, or anyone else, approach him because of it?
Not sure, I think I saw him with some girls.

That's not the point. Maybe it can't change things completely, but being self-confident can help.

I'm The Hawtest Thing Evah!
...and Other Delusions: A Case Study. By I.N. DeNile

Good point.
Of course, this guy also is noted for his unique yet impressive dance moves:
http://s46.photobucket.com/albums/f106/Krillz4Millz/th_NapoleonDance.gif
stewie dances:
Z1uuWc_8paY

stewie dances:
Z1uuWc_8paY

:D HAHAHA! What can I say? For a homicidal toddler...the kid can really bust a move!

It is high time to resucitate this thread. :p

It is high time to resucitate this thread. :p

oh brother....

oh brother....

:D :D :D I love it. Found it by accident. :p

:D :D :D I love it. Found it by accident. :p
I won't even bother to answer this one.

though not nearly as bad as those fan frink posts.
or maybe it is...

I find myself attractive.

and sadly yes, people do ask me out, and when I say "No. I don't like dating, and I'm a horrible person to date anyway as I don't pay attention. and by the way - you're not the only one to get rejected." they get all pissy. or try and convince me that by dating them my whole world will change and suddenly the human race will once more become attractive!

=| And whenever I tell people I consider myself asexual they go, (Or at least my friend Aaron does) "How can you not want to fuck??" and David now goes around saying Asexual at me. For some reason he seems to think he's asexual as well despite the fact he loves EVERYONE FAR TOO MUCH. haha.

but yea. people somehow find me dateable. it boggles my mind. I'm really not all that great company and I hate being around people. I'm not the best person to date! :P

I won't even bother to answer this one.

though not nearly as bad as those fan frink posts.
or maybe it is...

I beg to differ but fan frink posts were GREAT and I posted there myself too. No, not myself, but pics of me. :p

I find myself attractive.

and sadly yes, people do ask me out, and when I say "No. I don't like dating, and I'm a horrible person to date anyway as I don't pay attention. and by the way - you're not the only one to get rejected." they get all pissy. or try and convince me that by dating them my whole world will change and suddenly the human race will once more become attractive!

=| And whenever I tell people I consider myself asexual they go, (Or at least my friend Aaron does) "How can you not want to fuck??" and David now goes around saying Asexual at me. For some reason he seems to think he's asexual as well despite the fact he loves EVERYONE FAR TOO MUCH. haha.

but yea. people somehow find me dateable. it boggles my mind. I'm really not all that great company and I hate being around people. I'm not the best person to date! :P

Baby, you're safe with me. ;)

two fridays ago I had a guy approach me and ask me if I wanted him to be my slave.


and yes, he was COMPLETELY serious.

I don't know if that means I'm attractive, but apparently it means I look good snapping a whip.



p.s. i said "no thx"

[QUOTE=EPbabe;813212]I beg to differ but fan frink posts were GREAT and I posted there myself too. No, not myself, but pics of me. :p



I was joking
kinda.

I am vain to a degree,but I hardly find myself attractive,and I think there is a difference.

I'm told that I am cute often, but never hot or sexy or attractive. I've also been labeled "elf-like" before.

p.s. i said "no thx"

And why was that? :rolleyes:



I was joking
kinda.

I am vain to a degree,but I hardly find myself attractive,and I think there is a difference.

Well, here's my reply: I'm quite happy with my looks but I don't really get asked out cause I'm taken already. :o

I'm told that I am cute often, but never hot or sexy or attractive. I've also been labeled "elf-like" before.

really?? me too!!

i always get "you look like an elf" and then i make a "what???" face. and then they go "no but i mean like, a hot elf...." *shrug*

And why was that? :rolleyes:


he wasnt my type


and im not really into having slaves. maybe if he was really hot i wouldve made an exception.

I would suppose i'm just average looking. I've never been 'approached', whatever that means.

It's great, at 43, not to give a flying fuck anymore.

I think I look very nice for my age. Well, decent anyway.

But no one ever asks me out. Must have something to do with the collection of gold and diamond rings on my left hand and the two children dancing circles around me... you think? :rolleyes:

really?? me too!!

i always get "you look like an elf" and then i make a "what???" face. and then they go "no but i mean like, a hot elf...." *shrug*

I once told a girl she looked like an elf and she cried. I guess I should have said "hot elf" to be nice. In my case I'm short and I wear sweaters often.

I once told a girl she looked like an elf and she cried. I guess I should have said "hot elf" to be nice. In my case I'm short and I wear sweaters often.

no you say "no, a hot elf, you know like Liv Tyler in LOTR"

yes, I've gotten that. it softened the blow slightly.

I'm going to answer "no" and "no."

That is all.

no you say "no, a hot elf, you know like Liv Tyler in LOTR"

yes, I've gotten that. it softened the blow slightly.

Well, next time I call a random cute girl an elf I'll make use of your advice.

I'm going to answer "no" and "no."

That is all.

Someone needs to get laid.

Kidding!

Someone needs to get laid.

Kidding!

A good lay never did anyone any harm....;)

By the way, it was actually a good idea to bump this thread. :D

But no one ever asks me out. Must have something to do with the collection of gold and diamond rings on my left hand and the two children dancing circles around me... you think? :rolleyes:

I got asked out only once in the past six years. It was last year, in a park in the centre of Brussels. The guy was very nice and polite but when he asked me if he could sit next to me on my blanket :o I quickly said: oh sorry, I'm married. :D He apologized and left. I don't count flirting though. That's good for the health. ;)

I got asked out only once in the past six years. It was last year, in a park in the centre of Brussels. The guy was very nice and polite but when he asked me if he could sit next to me on my blanket :o I quickly said: oh sorry, I'm married. :D He apologized and left. I don't count flirting though. That's good for the health. ;)

A man asking politely to sit on your blanket! - that's soooo old fashioned European :) -can't imagine it happening here nowadays... the locals would whip the blanket from underneath you here... ;)

A man asking politely to sit on your blanket! - that's soooo old fashioned European :) -can't imagine it happening here nowadays... the locals would whip the blanket from underneath you here... ;)

Well, it's not very typical here either. The French, or French speaking people in general still have some politeness...:rolleyes: I love being called Madame. In Hungary everybody calls you by the first name. Awful, really. Why do I have to be friends with everyone?:rolleyes:

First of all the fan frink threads were a stroke of absolute genius by someone....:cool: And they too need a bump EPB

Secondly, this place misses Mozzy1 - i hope she has found some happiness at last.

Lastly, in my own case i never ever thought of myself as attractive. In fact quite the opposite. However, one day i got hugely lucky and met my wife who is unbelievably stunning. She openly admitted she was more attracted to my personality and wit than my looks. We have been together nearly eight years and weirdly enough now when i do go out without her i sometimes get approached by other women. Very strange and not unwelcome for an old hasbeen like me and i think has a lot to do with appearing confident and not looking like you want to meet anyone.

I scrub up ok, I often get approached but don't tend to like them.

Just fussy I guess.

First of all the fan frink threads were a stroke of absolute genius by someone....:cool: And they too need a bump EPB

Secondly, this place misses Mozzy1 - i hope she has found some happiness at last.

Lastly, in my own case i never ever thought of myself as attractive. In fact quite the opposite. However, one day i got hugely lucky and met my wife who is unbelievably stunning. She openly admitted she was more attracted to my personality and wit than my looks. We have been together nearly eight years and weirdly enough now when i do go out without her i sometimes get approached by other women. Very strange and not unwelcome for an old hasbeen like me and i think has a lot to do with appearing confident and not looking like you want to meet anyone.

That is so sweet! :sweet: ;) You know, ladies must think: "wow, his wife is a hottie, that guy must know a thing or two...." ;)

Ps. No worries, mister, pics are going to be taken this week, surely some drunk ones too... so that thread is in for a bump!

Hmmm... I'm listening to If You Don't Like Me, Don't Look At Me. Fitting for this thread.

I used to get approached sometimes, but not so much anymore. I really don't find myself attractive. I usually try to dress and look nice though.

I was a little tipsy last night and almost,almost posted on the male fan frink.

But then I just fell asleep.
Well,passed out.
Phew...

I used to get approached sometimes, but not so much anymore. I really don't find myself attractive. I usually try to dress and look nice though.

And you do a very nice job. ;)

I was a little tipsy last night and almost,almost posted on the male fan frink.

But then I just fell asleep.
Well,passed out.
Phew...

Oh fffffffffffeck.... :mad:

And you do a very nice job. ;)



Oh fffffffffffeck.... :mad:

Hehehe

Well perhaps after work...
Perhaps not.

Hehehe

Well perhaps after work...
Perhaps not.

Lol, you are such a tease.... :rolleyes:

EOH does not consider himself attractive, but he's had lots of people want him in the past.... unfortunaltely for EOH, no-one he's ever been interested in really.... even if cute, they haven't been what EOH is looking for at all. Sad :tears:

EOH doesn't not consider himself attractive, but he's had lots of people want him in the past.... unfortunaltely for EOH, no-one he's ever been interested in really.... even if cute, they haven't been what EOH is looking for at all. Sad :tears:

hmm typical of the "I want the one I can't have" school of thought, I do not think you are alone in this sir, I think often people tend to fall for people out of reach also I recall when i was young, not liking someone when they liked me, and when I did like them, they had moved on.
Sods law that. :rolleyes:

I used to get approached sometimes, but not so much anymore.

I think it's the avatar. :D

what is that anyway?

hmm typical of the "I want the one I can't have" school of thought, I do not think you are alone in this sir, I think often people tend to fall for people out of reach also I recall when i was young, not liking someone when they liked me, and when I did like them, they had moved on.
Sods law that. :rolleyes:


It's not the "I want the one I can't have" thing with EOH. EOH always believed that he'd know when he met the right peron for him, EOH not looking for physical appearance, EOH wants a soulmate type... someone who understands him and someone he can listen to and try to understand. EOH is more interested in loving someone than in being loved.

It's not the "I want the one I can't have" thing with EOH. EOH always believed that he'd know when he met the right peron for him, EOH not looking for physical appearance, EOH wants a soulmate type... someone who understands him and someone he can listen to and try to understand. EOH is more interested in loving someone than in being loved.

hmm still sounds a bit like IWTOICH to me. :(
However I am sure someone will come along for you, however its kind of nice if the love goes both ways ie him wanting you as well, otherwise it would just be a bit pointless.
good luck.

I consider myself not much to look at. Though I get approached quite often.

EOH does not consider himself attractive, but he's had lots of people want him in the past.... unfortunaltely for EOH, no-one he's ever been interested in really.... even if cute, they haven't been what EOH is looking for at all. Sad :tears:

You're gorgeous baby, but I told this to you at least a thousand times... :rolleyes:

I consider myself not much to look at. Though I get approached quite often.

Well you must be attractive then. :p

you should get a cat or something!




hahaha. Are you kidding me? :eek:
EOH is only 27... heaven knows he's very miserable now, but EOH will rise again someday.


btw, yes, EOH wants to be loved too, of course. What EOH meant is that he's not going to say yes to someone just because this person loves EOH. EOH MUST love the person.

hahaha. Are you kidding me? :eek:
EOH is only 27... heaven knows he's very miserable now, but EOH will rise again someday.


btw, yes, EOH wants to be loved too, of course. What EOH meant is that he's not going to say yes to someone just because this person loves EOH. EOH MUST love the person.

It's called mutual love. Just what we all want. ;)

No I'm not attractive!

No I'm not attractive!

Show us, and well let you know... EOH bets you are. ;)

Show us, and well let you know... EOH bets you are. ;)

I'm not confident enough to do that.

I'm not confident enough to do that.

Well, it's your choice. :)

EOH used to be very private before, but now he doesn't give a crap, posts all his misery and some pics all over the place w/o caring... even posts this at a hatefilled site he's member of, so far it's all gone ok... It was all in EOH's head before.

Well, it's your choice. :)

EOH used to be very private before, but now he doesn't give a crap, posts all his misery and some pics all over the place w/o caring... even posts this at a hatefilled site he's member of, so far it's all gone ok... It was all in EOH's head before.

Talking about yourself in the third person is a sign of madness EOH

Talking about yourself in the third person is a sign of madness EOH

LOL... yes. There's a history behind this 3rd person talk thingy. But when EOH created this account it just became part of the name and now it's too late to change.

EOH not mad.......EOH sad :(

LOL... yes. There's a history behind this 3rd person talk thingy. But when EOH created this account it just became part of the name and now it's too late to change.

EOH not mad.......EOH sad :(

you do not have to do it though, just be yourself. You will get on ok I am sure.

you do not have to do it though, just be yourself. You will get on ok I am sure.

Well, everything I post is 100% me, except for the EOH 3rd person crap. I'm actually more me now than before when I was all rebellious and troublemaker. :)


Anyway, EOH has to go, have a good one ya'll. :D

Well, everything I post is 100% me, except for the EOH 3rd person crap. I'm actually more me now than before when I was all rebellious and troublemaker. :)


Anyway, EOH has to go, have a good one ya'll. :D

well have a good day and don't be too miserable.

LOL... yes. There's a history behind this 3rd person talk thingy. But when EOH created this account it just became part of the name and now it's too late to change.

EOH not mad.......EOH sad :(

Why are you sad?

I'm going to answer "no" and "no."

That is all.

Someone needs to get laid.

Kidding!

Actually, I'm going through a painful and unexpected divorce. I'm not in the frame of mind to want to share that much of me with anyone anymore. And if I wasn't enough for him, what use am I to anyone else?

And no, I'm not the co-dependent type. I'm perfectly capable of keeping my own company.

Also, I tend to be a huge freak magnet. I'm just not interested.

However, a guy gave me his phone number a couple of weeks ago. I think I washed it. :p

Actually, I'm going through a painful and unexpected divorce. I'm not in the frame of mind to want to share that much of me with anyone anymore. And if I wasn't enough for him, what use am I to anyone else?

And no, I'm not the co-dependent type. I'm perfectly capable of keeping my own company.

Also, I tend to be a huge freak magnet. I'm just not interested.

However, a guy gave me his phone number a couple of weeks ago. I think I washed it. :p

I'm sorry if you feel that way, but I'm sure you're worth a lot more than you give yourself credit. I understand how you feel when you say "what use am I to anyone else?". You have to snap out of it, because it can become a never ending cycle of self-doubt. Even though I don't know you at all, nor can I fully grasp your situation through every detail, I can say that getting active is my best remedy for getting through bad times.

I'm sorry if you feel that way, but I'm sure you're worth a lot more than you give yourself credit. I understand how you feel when you say "what use am I to anyone else?". You have to snap out of it, because it can become a never ending cycle of self-doubt. Even though I don't know you at all, nor can I fully grasp your situation through every detail, I can say that getting active is my best remedy for getting through bad times.

It's only been a few months since it happened and I'm still grieving. It's going to take a long time for me to heal and an even longer time to allow myself to trust anyone again.

Also, I'm a bit old-fashioned. Technically, I'm still married. Dating isn't even an option for me until everything is official.

It's only been a few months since it happened and I'm still grieving. It's going to take a long time for me to heal and an even longer time to allow myself to trust anyone again.

Also, I'm a bit old-fashioned. Technically, I'm still married. Dating isn't even an option for me until everything is official.

Thats all very understandable. I hope everything goes well for you.

Thats all very understandable. I hope everything goes well for you.

Thanks. :)

Most days, it gets a little easier. Some days, there are setbacks. Baby steps. . .

I think it's the avatar. :D

what is that anyway?

It's piss in a cup...

Er... I mean it's this:
http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y69/heyitsmejoey/DSCN0252.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y69/heyitsmejoey/DSCN0253.jpg

Why are you sad?

EOH has so many reasons, world came crashing down on him about 3 months ago and only keeps getting worse. The last 6 weeks have been pure misery. :tears:

2008 - Worst Year Ever In EOH's life.