After reading many posts on this board I just wondered what the consesus of opinion was.

> After reading many posts on this board I just wondered what the consesus
> of opinion was.

Whats worse ..ill tell ya bloke....whats worse is going to a clubes and drinkin something contaminated.....going to some soccer playez house and getting it in the arse at 4:45 in da mournang matE




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> After reading many posts on this board I just wondered what the consesus
> of opinion was.

Depends upon the stance.

It's easier to insensitive, but more attractive to be sensitive, but not too sensitive, because that can be annoying. Confused yet?

> Depends upon the stance.

> It's easier to insensitive, but more attractive to be sensitive, but not
> too sensitive, because that can be annoying. Confused yet?

Hmm I find it easier to be sensitive actually. I find it really difficult to be insensitive to people. And why would I want to be anyway.

> After reading many posts on this board I just wondered what the consesus
> of opinion was.
IT IS FAR WORES TO BE INSENSITIVE,I CANT FATHOME EVEN ASKING THAT.IT MAY HURT A LITTLE MORE BUT DAM THOSE ROCKS .FLICKER LIKE A FLOWER PEDAL MY FRIEND....TRA LALALALA

> After reading many posts on this board I just wondered what the consesus
> of opinion was.

My ex boyfriend dumped me after all the love |I gave to him. But I can´t even insult him, because he was a gentleman during all the time. This is what I call insensitive, and for me it is the worst thing in the world. Damn it, I dream of him everynight! Men is the worst kind of creature in this world!

> Depends upon the stance.

> It's easier to insensitive, but more attractive to be sensitive, but not
> too sensitive, because that can be annoying. Confused yet?

I need to agree. Too sensitive is unbearable!

> My ex boyfriend dumped me after all the love |I gave to him. But I can´t
> even insult him, because he was a gentleman during all the time. This is
> what I call insensitive, and for me it is the worst thing in the world.

Wait he was an insensitive gentleman?

> Damn it, I dream of him everynight! Men is the worst kind of creature in
> this world!

I feel your pain. It's just the most awful feeling in the world. And then knowing that you chose this person who unknowingly would rip your heart out and spit it out without a care is the worst. Sometimes I think the better you treat them the more likely they are to leave. I guess my guy was one of those types that lose respect for you if you're nice. Oh and of course he belittled that type of person any time the topic came up. Cough, cough.

It's just so hard for me to figure out how people can change so much. When I met him he was sweet, sensitive, loving, inspiring and fun. We loved all the same things. 2 years later I couldn't even recognize him anymore.

> Wait he was an insensitive gentleman?

Believe me, yes! He never treated me bad, never! He never came and said: I don't love you anymore! He was a gentleman from the first to the last moment of our love. He just decided to leave. We went out for dinner, and I felt he was tense, but I didn't know the reason, and I asked, but he smiled his best smile, and told me to not worry. I should know he was trying to say goodbye, but since our relationship was doing so well, I couldn't imagine. You know, sometimes we are just blind.

> I feel your pain. It's just the most awful feeling in the world. And then
> knowing that you chose this person who unknowingly would rip your heart
> out and spit it out without a care is the worst. Sometimes I think the
> better you treat them the more likely they are to leave. I guess my guy
> was one of those types that lose respect for you if you're nice. Oh and of
> course he belittled that type of person any time the topic came up. Cough,
> cough.
> It's just so hard for me to figure out how people can change so much. When
> I met him he was sweet, sensitive, loving, inspiring and fun. We loved all
> the same things. 2 years later I couldn't even recognize him anymore.

I know exactly what you feel, because my ex boyfriend was the most charming, sweet man, and treated me like a jewel. And then, God only knows, he went away. Perhaps I should treat him like cheap women use to treat their men, I don't know. I simply can't hate him, I just suffer because his sense of humour, his presence, his smile are things I can't forget. He sent me flowers so many times, and he gave me the Oye Esteban DVD one night, before we go to the theatre. He did hold me very tight and said: I knew you would love. Now, stop thinking about Morrissey and think about me. ---

I hope someday I can forget him, and I tried to date new guys, but I'm simply not able to love another man, not now. I don't cry, I'm not depressed or something, but I'm empty, since his scent, his smile, and the splendour of his presence are not here with me anymore.

> Believe me, yes! He never treated me bad, never! He never came and said: I
> don't love you anymore! He was a gentleman from the first to the last
> moment of our love. He just decided to leave. We went out for dinner, and
> I felt he was tense, but I didn't know the reason, and I asked, but he
> smiled his best smile, and told me to not worry. I should know he was
> trying to say goodbye, but since our relationship was doing so well, I
> couldn't imagine. You know, sometimes we are just blind.

That's so sad, I really feel for you. But why did he end it? Did he give you a reason? I suppose sometimes these things just don't work out. Bad timing, small things are amiss, I don't know.

I think it's almost worse when things end and you don't hate the guy. It's more difficult because there is a part of you that would still like them around. Even though my guy turned out to be quite insensitive and hurtful towards me I still miss what we used to have when things were good. Being sentimental is my downfall and he used to tell me this. But how can I not be sentimental about things that meant so much to me?

> I hope someday I can forget him, and I tried to date new guys, but I'm
> simply not able to love another man, not now.

Just don't try to force it, it never works.